"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok heres the story: i went out with this girl a year ago, we really liked each other, break up happens, she gets a bf, i say i like her again... she says nah.. so i stumble upon this site, read everything learn as much as i can, confidence, attracting the whole shabang... so then tonight she calls back says ****s goin wack with her bf and everything..she says she just luvs her bf but loves me, im resisting cause i say i like being single (the whole thing about just focusing on ur self making things happen within urself before out of urself and all that, boosting confidence and learning) and im just resisting..plus im trying to do the right thing to keep them together.. besides if i was weak and was the same guy i used to be before coming on to this site... if she had called the same night i woulda said ohh yea lets go out and **** like that..but nah im not like that anymore im stronger wiser and i have so much more confidence :) now how about that?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That's nice to know. I know this site changed my life after I was introduced to it. I like to spread the word on this site and get people coming. I know my day isn't complete now without coming here and reading SOMETHING that will improve who I am.
 
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You want to be her toy?

good choice.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Welcome, Ambience. Like your name :)

Anyways, she dumped you.




SHE DUMPED YOU!!! ITS OVER!


So what if its "going whack" between her and her bf? She is telling you she loves him but she loves you too. This is bull****.

In reality all she's saying is: "Me and my bf hit a rough spot, but I intend on staying with him. I just need a pillow to cry into. You (points finger at you) will do!"

If she wanted you, she would have never left you. What? She may have changed over the year? Realized that she wants you? Dont get your hopes up, matey. Its over between you two. She wants you as backup. You're worth more than that.

Basically, why do you care if they stay together or not? Why do you want to keep them together, as you said? You have no reason to support them.


But, welcome to the site! Read and practice practice PRACTICE! Practice makes perfect.
 
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