"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ok heres the story: i went out with this girl a year ago, we really liked each other, break up happens, she gets a bf, i say i like her again... she says nah.. so i stumble upon this site, read everything learn as much as i can, confidence, attracting the whole shabang... so then tonight she calls back says ****s goin wack with her bf and everything..she says she just luvs her bf but loves me, im resisting cause i say i like being single (the whole thing about just focusing on ur self making things happen within urself before out of urself and all that, boosting confidence and learning) and im just resisting..plus im trying to do the right thing to keep them together.. besides if i was weak and was the same guy i used to be before coming on to this site... if she had called the same night i woulda said ohh yea lets go out and **** like that..but nah im not like that anymore im stronger wiser and i have so much more confidence :) now how about that?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That's nice to know. I know this site changed my life after I was introduced to it. I like to spread the word on this site and get people coming. I know my day isn't complete now without coming here and reading SOMETHING that will improve who I am.
 
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You want to be her toy?

good choice.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Welcome, Ambience. Like your name :)

Anyways, she dumped you.




SHE DUMPED YOU!!! ITS OVER!


So what if its "going whack" between her and her bf? She is telling you she loves him but she loves you too. This is bull****.

In reality all she's saying is: "Me and my bf hit a rough spot, but I intend on staying with him. I just need a pillow to cry into. You (points finger at you) will do!"

If she wanted you, she would have never left you. What? She may have changed over the year? Realized that she wants you? Dont get your hopes up, matey. Its over between you two. She wants you as backup. You're worth more than that.

Basically, why do you care if they stay together or not? Why do you want to keep them together, as you said? You have no reason to support them.


But, welcome to the site! Read and practice practice PRACTICE! Practice makes perfect.
 
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