"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My 4 year ex is sleeping with one of my best mates - experienced advice ONLY please.

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Push your knuckles into his face really fast.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PectoralisMajor said:
Clearly HE is in the wrong and shouldnt even go there given she is my ex of 4 years if we are to stay buddies.

It shows a dis-respect for me, and supposedly his girlfriend who I think he's still with.

How I know its going on isn't important, what is important is that although I have another girl on the go who I'm into, my friend has crossed a line that shouldnt be crossed.

Any advice or is there NOTHING I can do?

I remember in the past when I split up with my ex, I had to muscle him off the idea of anything with her because my friend seemed to think it was 'OK' - clearly its NOT.

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Order in this f**kin' court!!!

Yes, he's in the wrong, but you have been disrespected. You don't need backstabbing friends like that. How would you feel if Judge Nismo was your best friend and he's been banging this girl in chambers? Not very good huh?

This guy was just in line and wanted a piece of ass, so he got it. Now here are your options, all are gonna lead to the same place at the end of the day. You will see this after these sentences.

1. Whip his ass like you're Chuck Norris.
2. Let it go.
3. Curse your "friend's" ass out.
4. Go spin more plates.
5. Go workout.
6. Go focus on your own life.
7. Knock his ass out.

In the end, you've been disrespected, this girl is still your ex, you don't own this girl, and she can f**k your dad for all I care!

This is reality, wake your ass up! Your princess is in another goddamn castle! Go find her! Find a new best mate! That's my ruling!

Case closed. Don't you dare cry while leaving this courtroom!
 
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