"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My 4 year ex is sleeping with one of my best mates - experienced advice ONLY please.

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Push your knuckles into his face really fast.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PectoralisMajor said:
Clearly HE is in the wrong and shouldnt even go there given she is my ex of 4 years if we are to stay buddies.

It shows a dis-respect for me, and supposedly his girlfriend who I think he's still with.

How I know its going on isn't important, what is important is that although I have another girl on the go who I'm into, my friend has crossed a line that shouldnt be crossed.

Any advice or is there NOTHING I can do?

I remember in the past when I split up with my ex, I had to muscle him off the idea of anything with her because my friend seemed to think it was 'OK' - clearly its NOT.

Thoughts?
Order in this f**kin' court!!!

Yes, he's in the wrong, but you have been disrespected. You don't need backstabbing friends like that. How would you feel if Judge Nismo was your best friend and he's been banging this girl in chambers? Not very good huh?

This guy was just in line and wanted a piece of ass, so he got it. Now here are your options, all are gonna lead to the same place at the end of the day. You will see this after these sentences.

1. Whip his ass like you're Chuck Norris.
2. Let it go.
3. Curse your "friend's" ass out.
4. Go spin more plates.
5. Go workout.
6. Go focus on your own life.
7. Knock his ass out.

In the end, you've been disrespected, this girl is still your ex, you don't own this girl, and she can f**k your dad for all I care!

This is reality, wake your ass up! Your princess is in another goddamn castle! Go find her! Find a new best mate! That's my ruling!

Case closed. Don't you dare cry while leaving this courtroom!
 
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