"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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troubles1902

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Sup everybody, I'm real new to these forums. So I wanted to share my first girl experience since deciding to stop being an AFC.
Please give me some feedback on what I could have done, or what I did right.

Alright, I got to tutoring during the summer. I know I'm supposed to be studying, but there was this one girl I would rate an 7.5
(she has braces). She wasn't repulsive so I figured her perfect practice for school.
So we go to school and I see the chance to sit next to her. I generally make fun of her/make her laugh. Like she kept wanting help on her online test and I would say " Patrick's not always gonna be here to help you."
We have this teacher that likes to talk excessively, and I called her over to help the girl, and she gave me this look. She later called me 'mean'. I started the kino as early as possible, although in small steps.
(touching her shoulder to get her attention, and making my wrist touch hers)
I feel like I didn't apply to much C+F, though. Any opinions or questions?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dannowillbookem

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sounds like u have the funny down, and thats half of cf. you confident much? look her in the eye and let her kno through ur movements (leaned back, eye contact, smile) that ur not afraid of her.

otherwise i think u got this bird.
 

troubles1902

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yea, like "patrick's not always gonna be here to help you"
I was thinking of acting kind of cold to her tomorrow, like saying hi, but not really talking to her.
 

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you could probaly offer to help her after tutoring nd then you can make out with her. ofcourse I don't know about braces.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
you could probaly offer to help her after tutoring nd then you can make out with her. ofcourse I don't know about braces.
Hehe, it's not much different with braces
 

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I was thinking of acting kind of cold to her tomorrow, like saying hi, but not really talking to her.

Don't act cold, this will turn her off. You want to come across like 'i'm into you, but i'm not going to sweat you'. See the difference?

You have positive energy going with her, don't mess it up by being cold.

Great job on everything else. I know I have a girl right where I want her when she says 'you're mean'. LOL

Great job bro, keep it up...
 

troubles1902

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made fun of her, she made fun of me today, i was thinking of getting her phone number, what do you guys think i should do tomorrow. Also met another cutie named Cedra, she has a bf though.
 
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