"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sup everybody, I'm real new to these forums. So I wanted to share my first girl experience since deciding to stop being an AFC.
Please give me some feedback on what I could have done, or what I did right.

Alright, I got to tutoring during the summer. I know I'm supposed to be studying, but there was this one girl I would rate an 7.5
(she has braces). She wasn't repulsive so I figured her perfect practice for school.
So we go to school and I see the chance to sit next to her. I generally make fun of her/make her laugh. Like she kept wanting help on her online test and I would say " Patrick's not always gonna be here to help you."
We have this teacher that likes to talk excessively, and I called her over to help the girl, and she gave me this look. She later called me 'mean'. I started the kino as early as possible, although in small steps.
(touching her shoulder to get her attention, and making my wrist touch hers)
I feel like I didn't apply to much C+F, though. Any opinions or questions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sounds like u have the funny down, and thats half of cf. you confident much? look her in the eye and let her kno through ur movements (leaned back, eye contact, smile) that ur not afraid of her.

otherwise i think u got this bird.
 
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yea, like "patrick's not always gonna be here to help you"
I was thinking of acting kind of cold to her tomorrow, like saying hi, but not really talking to her.
 
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you could probaly offer to help her after tutoring nd then you can make out with her. ofcourse I don't know about braces.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
you could probaly offer to help her after tutoring nd then you can make out with her. ofcourse I don't know about braces.
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Hehe, it's not much different with braces
 
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I was thinking of acting kind of cold to her tomorrow, like saying hi, but not really talking to her.

Don't act cold, this will turn her off. You want to come across like 'i'm into you, but i'm not going to sweat you'. See the difference?

You have positive energy going with her, don't mess it up by being cold.

Great job on everything else. I know I have a girl right where I want her when she says 'you're mean'. LOL

Great job bro, keep it up...
 
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made fun of her, she made fun of me today, i was thinking of getting her phone number, what do you guys think i should do tomorrow. Also met another cutie named Cedra, she has a bf though.
 
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