"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My 1st Report

troubles1902

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Sup everybody, I'm real new to these forums. So I wanted to share my first girl experience since deciding to stop being an AFC.
Please give me some feedback on what I could have done, or what I did right.

Alright, I got to tutoring during the summer. I know I'm supposed to be studying, but there was this one girl I would rate an 7.5
(she has braces). She wasn't repulsive so I figured her perfect practice for school.
So we go to school and I see the chance to sit next to her. I generally make fun of her/make her laugh. Like she kept wanting help on her online test and I would say " Patrick's not always gonna be here to help you."
We have this teacher that likes to talk excessively, and I called her over to help the girl, and she gave me this look. She later called me 'mean'. I started the kino as early as possible, although in small steps.
(touching her shoulder to get her attention, and making my wrist touch hers)
I feel like I didn't apply to much C+F, though. Any opinions or questions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dannowillbookem

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sounds like u have the funny down, and thats half of cf. you confident much? look her in the eye and let her kno through ur movements (leaned back, eye contact, smile) that ur not afraid of her.

otherwise i think u got this bird.
 

troubles1902

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yea, like "patrick's not always gonna be here to help you"
I was thinking of acting kind of cold to her tomorrow, like saying hi, but not really talking to her.
 

08aisaac

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you could probaly offer to help her after tutoring nd then you can make out with her. ofcourse I don't know about braces.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
you could probaly offer to help her after tutoring nd then you can make out with her. ofcourse I don't know about braces.
Hehe, it's not much different with braces
 

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I was thinking of acting kind of cold to her tomorrow, like saying hi, but not really talking to her.

Don't act cold, this will turn her off. You want to come across like 'i'm into you, but i'm not going to sweat you'. See the difference?

You have positive energy going with her, don't mess it up by being cold.

Great job on everything else. I know I have a girl right where I want her when she says 'you're mean'. LOL

Great job bro, keep it up...
 

troubles1902

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made fun of her, she made fun of me today, i was thinking of getting her phone number, what do you guys think i should do tomorrow. Also met another cutie named Cedra, she has a bf though.
 
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