Heretolearn
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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'I never understood how women, working women with husbands and children, could have affairs, because I never understood how they could fit them into their schedules. I remember when I smoked-I always found enough money to buy cigarettes.' So true. ****in sluts.
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and another
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,20269-1267449_1,00.html
'Barash interviewed 120 married women for her book, A Passion for More: Wives Reveal the Affairs that Make or Break Their Marriages, and claims that 60 per cent of them had had extramarital sex. Of those, 90 per cent said they felt no guilt. She believes women generally have affairs for one of four reasons: for self esteem, for sex, for empowerment and for love. “They don’t feel guilt because by the time these women embark on an affair they are so disappointed in their marriage, they are so disillusioned, that even convention-bound as they are, they are willing to cross the line.”'
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,20269-1267449_1,00.html
'Barash interviewed 120 married women for her book, A Passion for More: Wives Reveal the Affairs that Make or Break Their Marriages, and claims that 60 per cent of them had had extramarital sex. Of those, 90 per cent said they felt no guilt. She believes women generally have affairs for one of four reasons: for self esteem, for sex, for empowerment and for love. “They don’t feel guilt because by the time these women embark on an affair they are so disappointed in their marriage, they are so disillusioned, that even convention-bound as they are, they are willing to cross the line.”'
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John LaSage was shocked to come home one day and find his wife of 24 years had disappeared. No note, no phone call, nothing. He'd bought her a computer four months previously, he says, and he knew something was wrong: she'd stay up until 3 or 4 a.m., browsing online. She told him she was doing research for a romance novel she was writing, he says, and after her disappearance, he hacked into the computer to investigate. "She had set up a chat room that was called ... gosh ... 'Smooth Legs.' And so guys would come in there and flirt with her. I have transcripts. I can't tell you how excruciating it was to read the e-mails from people supposedly speaking with my wife, but she wasn't talking like my wife. That was just weird." Two weeks later he discovered she had left the country, he says. "I wasn't the perfect husband. I would have done a lot of things differently, but I never got the chance," says LaSage.
absolutely depressing - i am not reading ANY MORE!
absolutely depressing - i am not reading ANY MORE!
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Depressing? Are you stoned? this is bloody GREAT!!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
tmpgstx
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Society is becoming more fickle, hence people are becoming more fickle. More people should be humbled by such bad experiences.
