Heretolearn
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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'I never understood how women, working women with husbands and children, could have affairs, because I never understood how they could fit them into their schedules. I remember when I smoked-I always found enough money to buy cigarettes.' So true. ****in sluts.
Heretolearn
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and another
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,20269-1267449_1,00.html
'Barash interviewed 120 married women for her book, A Passion for More: Wives Reveal the Affairs that Make or Break Their Marriages, and claims that 60 per cent of them had had extramarital sex. Of those, 90 per cent said they felt no guilt. She believes women generally have affairs for one of four reasons: for self esteem, for sex, for empowerment and for love. “They don’t feel guilt because by the time these women embark on an affair they are so disappointed in their marriage, they are so disillusioned, that even convention-bound as they are, they are willing to cross the line.”'
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,20269-1267449_1,00.html
'Barash interviewed 120 married women for her book, A Passion for More: Wives Reveal the Affairs that Make or Break Their Marriages, and claims that 60 per cent of them had had extramarital sex. Of those, 90 per cent said they felt no guilt. She believes women generally have affairs for one of four reasons: for self esteem, for sex, for empowerment and for love. “They don’t feel guilt because by the time these women embark on an affair they are so disappointed in their marriage, they are so disillusioned, that even convention-bound as they are, they are willing to cross the line.”'
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John LaSage was shocked to come home one day and find his wife of 24 years had disappeared. No note, no phone call, nothing. He'd bought her a computer four months previously, he says, and he knew something was wrong: she'd stay up until 3 or 4 a.m., browsing online. She told him she was doing research for a romance novel she was writing, he says, and after her disappearance, he hacked into the computer to investigate. "She had set up a chat room that was called ... gosh ... 'Smooth Legs.' And so guys would come in there and flirt with her. I have transcripts. I can't tell you how excruciating it was to read the e-mails from people supposedly speaking with my wife, but she wasn't talking like my wife. That was just weird." Two weeks later he discovered she had left the country, he says. "I wasn't the perfect husband. I would have done a lot of things differently, but I never got the chance," says LaSage.
absolutely depressing - i am not reading ANY MORE!
absolutely depressing - i am not reading ANY MORE!
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Depressing? Are you stoned? this is bloody GREAT!!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
tmpgstx
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Society is becoming more fickle, hence people are becoming more fickle. More people should be humbled by such bad experiences.
