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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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'I never understood how women, working women with husbands and children, could have affairs, because I never understood how they could fit them into their schedules. I remember when I smoked-I always found enough money to buy cigarettes.' So true. ****in sluts.
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and another
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,20269-1267449_1,00.html
'Barash interviewed 120 married women for her book, A Passion for More: Wives Reveal the Affairs that Make or Break Their Marriages, and claims that 60 per cent of them had had extramarital sex. Of those, 90 per cent said they felt no guilt. She believes women generally have affairs for one of four reasons: for self esteem, for sex, for empowerment and for love. “They don’t feel guilt because by the time these women embark on an affair they are so disappointed in their marriage, they are so disillusioned, that even convention-bound as they are, they are willing to cross the line.”'
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,20269-1267449_1,00.html
'Barash interviewed 120 married women for her book, A Passion for More: Wives Reveal the Affairs that Make or Break Their Marriages, and claims that 60 per cent of them had had extramarital sex. Of those, 90 per cent said they felt no guilt. She believes women generally have affairs for one of four reasons: for self esteem, for sex, for empowerment and for love. “They don’t feel guilt because by the time these women embark on an affair they are so disappointed in their marriage, they are so disillusioned, that even convention-bound as they are, they are willing to cross the line.”'
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John LaSage was shocked to come home one day and find his wife of 24 years had disappeared. No note, no phone call, nothing. He'd bought her a computer four months previously, he says, and he knew something was wrong: she'd stay up until 3 or 4 a.m., browsing online. She told him she was doing research for a romance novel she was writing, he says, and after her disappearance, he hacked into the computer to investigate. "She had set up a chat room that was called ... gosh ... 'Smooth Legs.' And so guys would come in there and flirt with her. I have transcripts. I can't tell you how excruciating it was to read the e-mails from people supposedly speaking with my wife, but she wasn't talking like my wife. That was just weird." Two weeks later he discovered she had left the country, he says. "I wasn't the perfect husband. I would have done a lot of things differently, but I never got the chance," says LaSage.
absolutely depressing - i am not reading ANY MORE!
absolutely depressing - i am not reading ANY MORE!
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Depressing? Are you stoned? this is bloody GREAT!!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
tmpgstx
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Society is becoming more fickle, hence people are becoming more fickle. More people should be humbled by such bad experiences.
