“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Crazy Asian

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hey i've been looking for some new music to listen to.
i don't like rap or country.
i like stuff like my chemical romance, linkin park, avenged sevenfold, the used, anberlin.
just anything that you really like, put the name of the artist and maybe some of your favorite songs as well.
thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Coheed & Cambria, probably my favorite band of the 2000's. Awesome mix of pop/progressive stuff with a vocalist who's a mix of Billy Corgan, Geddy Lee, and Michael Jackson (sounds better than my description) and a really interesting conceptual storyline running through all their albums. Their album In Keeping Secrets Of Silent Earth: 3 is easily in my top 5 favorite albums EVER!! Here's some clips:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vGpbd6BUO0I

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bvH-70bY2C8

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wp_Now6WDRc
 

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Listen to a genre called 'dubstep'. Im more into the mellow dubstep:

Caspa - ****ney Violin
Burial - Unite
Rusko - Jahova

It takes a while for the bassline to kick in and sounds awesome in a quality sound system.

Let me know what you think
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i like all the bands you posted :up:

but look for a song called "suspicious character" by a band called "the blood arm". it's the most dj song ever. lol

but i also like:
pepper
the expendables
fall of troy
some arctic monkeys
blink 182
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there's tons. try going to myspace music and looking up the genre you like. it's kinda cool to have a girl sitting in your car listening to your music and its some obscure bad ass band playing and have her be like "woah this is good who is this?"
 

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Arcade Fire
Pony Up
Watson Twins
 

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The band Rise Against...

Favorite songs of theirs:

Ready to Fall
The Good Left Undone
Survive

The band Tool...

Favorite songs of theirs:

Eulogy
46 & 2
Stink Fist

The band Crossfade...

Favorite songs of theirs:

Cold
Colors

The band Shinedown...

Favorite songs of theirs:

Crying out
Beyond the Sun

The band Opeth...

Favorite songs of theirs:

Death Whispers a lullaby
Hope Leaves
 

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Roy said:
Listen to a genre called 'dubstep'. Im more into the mellow dubstep:

Caspa - ****ney Violin
Burial - Unite
Rusko - Jahova

It takes a while for the bassline to kick in and sounds awesome in a quality sound system.

Let me know what you think
Roy, I'm kind of new to the whole Dubstep genre, but I've got two of Burial's CD's HDBCD001 and Untrue. Neither of them have a song called Unite. Is this a name of another album or song off another album?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AC/DC
Accept
Aerosmith
Black Sabbath
Deep Purple
Def Leppard
Dio
Dokken
DragonForce
Dream Theater
Exciter
Exodus
Guns N' Roses
Helloween
Iron Maiden
Judas Priest
KISS
Krokus
L.A. Guns
Led Zeppelin
Manowar
Megadeth
Metallica
Mötley Crüe
Motörhead
Ozzy Osbourne
Poison
Quiet Riot
Rage Against The Machine
Ratt
Riot
Rose Tattoo
Scorpions
Skid Row
Slayer
Testament
Tool
Twisted Sister
Van Halen
Vinnie Vincent Invasion
Vio-lence
W.A.S.P.
ZZ Top
 

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Death Cab for Cutie
The Postal Service
Story of the YEar
Smile Empty Soul
Chevelle
Breaking Benjamin
Trapt
All-american rejects
Three Days Grace
Imogen Heap
H.I.M
Drowning Pool
Jack's Mannequin
Staind
Alexisonfire
City & Colour (Dallas Green)
Iron Maiden
Guns & Roses
Velvet Revolver
Nirvana
Jimmy Eat World
Killswitch Engage
Radiohead
Stars

I listen to mainly Rock/alternative, indie; but also a bit of dance, hip hop and R&B (it used to be my main genre of music to listen to), as well as getting into music instrumentals
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thanks everyone.
i found this song that i really liked.
handlebars by flobots.
and
all around me
 
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