"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hey i've been looking for some new music to listen to.
i don't like rap or country.
i like stuff like my chemical romance, linkin park, avenged sevenfold, the used, anberlin.
just anything that you really like, put the name of the artist and maybe some of your favorite songs as well.
thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Coheed & Cambria, probably my favorite band of the 2000's. Awesome mix of pop/progressive stuff with a vocalist who's a mix of Billy Corgan, Geddy Lee, and Michael Jackson (sounds better than my description) and a really interesting conceptual storyline running through all their albums. Their album In Keeping Secrets Of Silent Earth: 3 is easily in my top 5 favorite albums EVER!! Here's some clips:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vGpbd6BUO0I

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bvH-70bY2C8

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wp_Now6WDRc
 
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Listen to a genre called 'dubstep'. Im more into the mellow dubstep:

Caspa - ****ney Violin
Burial - Unite
Rusko - Jahova

It takes a while for the bassline to kick in and sounds awesome in a quality sound system.

Let me know what you think
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i like all the bands you posted :up:

but look for a song called "suspicious character" by a band called "the blood arm". it's the most dj song ever. lol

but i also like:
pepper
the expendables
fall of troy
some arctic monkeys
blink 182
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there's tons. try going to myspace music and looking up the genre you like. it's kinda cool to have a girl sitting in your car listening to your music and its some obscure bad ass band playing and have her be like "woah this is good who is this?"
 
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Arcade Fire
Pony Up
Watson Twins
 
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The band Rise Against...

Favorite songs of theirs:

Ready to Fall
The Good Left Undone
Survive

The band Tool...

Favorite songs of theirs:

Eulogy
46 & 2
Stink Fist

The band Crossfade...

Favorite songs of theirs:

Cold
Colors

The band Shinedown...

Favorite songs of theirs:

Crying out
Beyond the Sun

The band Opeth...

Favorite songs of theirs:

Death Whispers a lullaby
Hope Leaves
 
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Roy said:
Listen to a genre called 'dubstep'. Im more into the mellow dubstep:

Caspa - ****ney Violin
Burial - Unite
Rusko - Jahova

It takes a while for the bassline to kick in and sounds awesome in a quality sound system.

Let me know what you think
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Roy, I'm kind of new to the whole Dubstep genre, but I've got two of Burial's CD's HDBCD001 and Untrue. Neither of them have a song called Unite. Is this a name of another album or song off another album?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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AC/DC
Accept
Aerosmith
Black Sabbath
Deep Purple
Def Leppard
Dio
Dokken
DragonForce
Dream Theater
Exciter
Exodus
Guns N' Roses
Helloween
Iron Maiden
Judas Priest
KISS
Krokus
L.A. Guns
Led Zeppelin
Manowar
Megadeth
Metallica
Mötley Crüe
Motörhead
Ozzy Osbourne
Poison
Quiet Riot
Rage Against The Machine
Ratt
Riot
Rose Tattoo
Scorpions
Skid Row
Slayer
Testament
Tool
Twisted Sister
Van Halen
Vinnie Vincent Invasion
Vio-lence
W.A.S.P.
ZZ Top
 
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Death Cab for Cutie
The Postal Service
Story of the YEar
Smile Empty Soul
Chevelle
Breaking Benjamin
Trapt
All-american rejects
Three Days Grace
Imogen Heap
H.I.M
Drowning Pool
Jack's Mannequin
Staind
Alexisonfire
City & Colour (Dallas Green)
Iron Maiden
Guns & Roses
Velvet Revolver
Nirvana
Jimmy Eat World
Killswitch Engage
Radiohead
Stars

I listen to mainly Rock/alternative, indie; but also a bit of dance, hip hop and R&B (it used to be my main genre of music to listen to), as well as getting into music instrumentals
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thanks everyone.
i found this song that i really liked.
handlebars by flobots.
and
all around me
 
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