"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Crazy Asian

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hey i've been looking for some new music to listen to.
i don't like rap or country.
i like stuff like my chemical romance, linkin park, avenged sevenfold, the used, anberlin.
just anything that you really like, put the name of the artist and maybe some of your favorite songs as well.
thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Coheed & Cambria, probably my favorite band of the 2000's. Awesome mix of pop/progressive stuff with a vocalist who's a mix of Billy Corgan, Geddy Lee, and Michael Jackson (sounds better than my description) and a really interesting conceptual storyline running through all their albums. Their album In Keeping Secrets Of Silent Earth: 3 is easily in my top 5 favorite albums EVER!! Here's some clips:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vGpbd6BUO0I

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bvH-70bY2C8

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wp_Now6WDRc
 

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Listen to a genre called 'dubstep'. Im more into the mellow dubstep:

Caspa - ****ney Violin
Burial - Unite
Rusko - Jahova

It takes a while for the bassline to kick in and sounds awesome in a quality sound system.

Let me know what you think
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i like all the bands you posted :up:

but look for a song called "suspicious character" by a band called "the blood arm". it's the most dj song ever. lol

but i also like:
pepper
the expendables
fall of troy
some arctic monkeys
blink 182
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there's tons. try going to myspace music and looking up the genre you like. it's kinda cool to have a girl sitting in your car listening to your music and its some obscure bad ass band playing and have her be like "woah this is good who is this?"
 

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Arcade Fire
Pony Up
Watson Twins
 

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The band Rise Against...

Favorite songs of theirs:

Ready to Fall
The Good Left Undone
Survive

The band Tool...

Favorite songs of theirs:

Eulogy
46 & 2
Stink Fist

The band Crossfade...

Favorite songs of theirs:

Cold
Colors

The band Shinedown...

Favorite songs of theirs:

Crying out
Beyond the Sun

The band Opeth...

Favorite songs of theirs:

Death Whispers a lullaby
Hope Leaves
 

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Roy said:
Listen to a genre called 'dubstep'. Im more into the mellow dubstep:

Caspa - ****ney Violin
Burial - Unite
Rusko - Jahova

It takes a while for the bassline to kick in and sounds awesome in a quality sound system.

Let me know what you think
Roy, I'm kind of new to the whole Dubstep genre, but I've got two of Burial's CD's HDBCD001 and Untrue. Neither of them have a song called Unite. Is this a name of another album or song off another album?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AC/DC
Accept
Aerosmith
Black Sabbath
Deep Purple
Def Leppard
Dio
Dokken
DragonForce
Dream Theater
Exciter
Exodus
Guns N' Roses
Helloween
Iron Maiden
Judas Priest
KISS
Krokus
L.A. Guns
Led Zeppelin
Manowar
Megadeth
Metallica
Mötley Crüe
Motörhead
Ozzy Osbourne
Poison
Quiet Riot
Rage Against The Machine
Ratt
Riot
Rose Tattoo
Scorpions
Skid Row
Slayer
Testament
Tool
Twisted Sister
Van Halen
Vinnie Vincent Invasion
Vio-lence
W.A.S.P.
ZZ Top
 

Live-n-learn

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Death Cab for Cutie
The Postal Service
Story of the YEar
Smile Empty Soul
Chevelle
Breaking Benjamin
Trapt
All-american rejects
Three Days Grace
Imogen Heap
H.I.M
Drowning Pool
Jack's Mannequin
Staind
Alexisonfire
City & Colour (Dallas Green)
Iron Maiden
Guns & Roses
Velvet Revolver
Nirvana
Jimmy Eat World
Killswitch Engage
Radiohead
Stars

I listen to mainly Rock/alternative, indie; but also a bit of dance, hip hop and R&B (it used to be my main genre of music to listen to), as well as getting into music instrumentals
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thanks everyone.
i found this song that i really liked.
handlebars by flobots.
and
all around me
 
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