"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Music to Seduce

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So everything goes well you have a nice day and you bring her home. What kind of music should be playing to "set" the mood? What about the music that's playing will you two are driving? Plus, is it true that it's better if the music is italian, spanish, french, etc. Basically another language.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Since alot of the cute girls (the ones I date ':) ) tend to go for rap I usually put on some Jadakiss even though I can't stand the guy......but it's not about me, he creates a 'opened up' attitude in the girls
 

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Boyz II Men - I'll Make Love to You
Bow Wow feat Omarion - Let Me Hold You
Luther Vandross - Always and Forever
Mario - You Should Let Me Love You
 

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I personally think "Seduce Me" by India is a good one with a nice subliminal message. "Freak Me" by Silk is pretty good too.

But Nouvelle Vague is the best. French and Brazillian lounge-singing girls covering post-punk classics. Find some of that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Luther Vandross (either the really old stuff, or some of the slow new stuff) works wonders, personally I made a mix cd with alot of his old stuff and his new song with Beyonce, and some of the other slow songs on the new album (not the ones with Busta Rhymes tho, he ruins the mood)
 
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-Stick to Classics like Marvin Gaye, Barry White, Al Green, Isaac Hayes, Frank Sinatra.
-If you want something more recent then try: Maxwell, Dru Hill, Joe, Brian McKnight or Keith Sweat.
 
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