"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Music to Seduce

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So everything goes well you have a nice day and you bring her home. What kind of music should be playing to "set" the mood? What about the music that's playing will you two are driving? Plus, is it true that it's better if the music is italian, spanish, french, etc. Basically another language.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Since alot of the cute girls (the ones I date ':) ) tend to go for rap I usually put on some Jadakiss even though I can't stand the guy......but it's not about me, he creates a 'opened up' attitude in the girls
 

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Boyz II Men - I'll Make Love to You
Bow Wow feat Omarion - Let Me Hold You
Luther Vandross - Always and Forever
Mario - You Should Let Me Love You
 

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I personally think "Seduce Me" by India is a good one with a nice subliminal message. "Freak Me" by Silk is pretty good too.

But Nouvelle Vague is the best. French and Brazillian lounge-singing girls covering post-punk classics. Find some of that.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Luther Vandross (either the really old stuff, or some of the slow new stuff) works wonders, personally I made a mix cd with alot of his old stuff and his new song with Beyonce, and some of the other slow songs on the new album (not the ones with Busta Rhymes tho, he ruins the mood)
 
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-Stick to Classics like Marvin Gaye, Barry White, Al Green, Isaac Hayes, Frank Sinatra.
-If you want something more recent then try: Maxwell, Dru Hill, Joe, Brian McKnight or Keith Sweat.
 
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