"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Music Got me Laid twice in one day!

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Ok.
so this morning i woke up and i got a text from one of the girls ive been seeing.
i really like her but due to another chic that ive been pretty steady with (and i had a set back in finding out her career..so ive been back in the market)...

Anyway i got a text from HB9 about how shes not doin much today, what im upto.
i tell her nothing, she should come over n pick me up n we could chill.
She said ok..came over..

i decided i wanted to stay in for the day with her..bcoz she said she had to go in 2 hours to her folks for lunch.

I thought sweet we can kick it at home, We had not had s3x yet, been seeing her 1 week.
i decided to play some soft music.
turns out the music kinda turned her on..
conversation started to heat up..and we ended up kissing leading to BAM!

She leaves..20 mins later im walkin out the shower and get a call from another plate. now this girl has a X that she was very confused on her future with..so she put me on ice a couple weeks back. Initially i felt really played, but i didnt show her, i was straight up and said unless she wanted to s3x, dont call. and i cold turkey nexted her.
she calls, asks what im upto?
i say nothin!
she says "im comin over.."
Me: Ok

anyway she comes over, dressed in layers top to toe..and just sits on my couch.
she wouldnt give me any major attn, so i knew this wasnt gonna go anywhere.
i got mad, pulled away to another room, leaving her watching some dvd..
i played the same 15 tracks in the other room.
a while later, she comes in.."nice music.."
ME: Yeh i know.
She: "Why did u leave me there? alone?"
Me: Well u were into ur movie..n i was feelina play some smooth music
she hops on my bed..like hmmm its nice..ur bed..im goin to sleep/
(The room we were in was my bedroom with my ipod system)

Me: cool..ill wake u up later..im gonna check out some music here on headfones..

2 mins later she pulls me into bed.
BAM!.
then she goes...plz write me those songs on CD.. :) :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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teehehehehehhehe...
PM me..ill send you the list..
you like sensual RnB?..always gets the ladies disrobed...:up: .

I noticed one song specially..but PM me ill hit you back..

But what im sayin is.
alota people have said things like music etc doesnt really make a difference.

i think though that if you had mood music and proper set up, you would have to do half the work to get in.
I didnt do much work today to be honest. but yeh..
im gonna keep this playlist close..lol.

im going out tonight to a party, im hoping tonight ill be getting numbers or even better setting up some dates.
my main squeeze is going to raratonga next week. so its gonna leave me with the above two girls..id like one more...so..this playlist is already set up, plus i have mood lighting in my house, incase i bring smtn home. lol.

oh also note: ive been using this new automatic air fragrance thing in the house..ive noticed the girls that come by all notice the nice smell and it helps them relax..

so environment does affect their mood gentlemen..goodluck
 

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lol, awesome dude
 

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Dude, post the track list. I love R&B and the ladies love it more.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yea I would love to see the list man.

People are always asking for good songs to play on here.

And your right about having the place smell good, I usually try to lite up some insense to give my place a distinct smell.
 
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Try a street cold approach with the music playing loudly, call up a girl to ask for directions, and while she comes close to your car, increase the volume of the music and ask her if she likes the music, and see if you'll get the same reaction.
 

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ok due to overloaded mailbox for playlist requests...and you guys not happy with me not posting the list..lol..

i paid my varsities degrees as a RnB/Hip Hop DJ..so i get alot of new songs straight from the artists because im part of a music review dj crew..

i can make a regularly updated thread with RnB music to getting the ladies in the mood?

Ill also try putting links to the music on znet or someplace. if not find it on limewire etc.

keep alook out on this post gentlemen

i just got back from going out and its 6am..So ill post it tomorow. and hopefully you'll all enjoy the fruits of it.. :)

if you do get laid using the music ive posted..please share, especially if she mentioned which songs especially.. ;) and give me some rep! lol..
 

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Check the new thread guys...Ill updated it regularly, hopefully mods can make it a sticky...
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't think the music got you laid. I think you got yourself laid. If playing a certin song on your first date would get you laid. There wouldn't be soo many guys trying to get laid. It was all you and not the music. Sure, it can set the mood but, thats it.
 
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night101 said:
what ethnicity are you and the chicks you laid?
Read his intro thread. He's black, and the girls he is with is likely introduced from his social circle of friends.
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
Try a street cold approach with the music playing loudly, call up a girl to ask for directions, and while she comes close to your car, increase the volume of the music and ask her if she likes the music, and see if you'll get the same reaction.
So does it work?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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slickaz said:
teehehehehehhehe...
PM me..ill send you the list..
you like sensual RnB?..always gets the ladies disrobed...:up: .

I noticed one song specially..but PM me ill hit you back..

But what im sayin is.
alota people have said things like music etc doesnt really make a difference.

i think though that if you had mood music and proper set up, you would have to do half the work to get in.
I didnt do much work today to be honest. but yeh..
im gonna keep this playlist close..lol.

im going out tonight to a party, im hoping tonight ill be getting numbers or even better setting up some dates.
my main squeeze is going to raratonga next week. so its gonna leave me with the above two girls..id like one more...so..this playlist is already set up, plus i have mood lighting in my house, incase i bring smtn home. lol.

oh also note: ive been using this new automatic air fragrance thing in the house..ive noticed the girls that come by all notice the nice smell and it helps them relax..

so environment does affect their mood gentlemen..goodluck
Where you from?
 

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Read his intro thread. He's black, and the girls he is with is likely introduced from his social circle of friends.

hahaha how did i know that
 

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night101 said:
hahaha how did i know that
I got that feeling too. Nothing wrong with it (lol), but I don't think most white girls respond to r&b like black girls would.

I always use Ben Folds myself. Works like a charm!
 

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slickaz said:
Anyway i got a text from HB9 about how shes not doin much today, what im upto.
i tell her nothing, she should come over n pick me up n we could chill.
She said ok..came over..
conversation started to heat up..and we ended up kissing leading to BAM!

She leaves..20 mins later im walkin out the shower and get a call from another plate. ....
she says "im comin over.."
Me: Ok
....later she pulls me into bed.
BAM!.

Man, I've found that there are days in a month that all women seem to get horny at the same time. Many many times I have had plates all call me the same day -- about 2-6 phone texts/emails/calls within a few days of each other. The girls just want to 'hang out' aka fcuk.

* Remember that these girls all initiated by calling you to "hang out" ;) *

I don't want to discount your music theory, but I really think it's more of a 'when it rains it pours' situation than the music that got you laid.

I wrote a thread about it years ago. If forgot the title, but is was something along the lines of 'Girls all seem to get horny at the same time'.

One player told me it's because they're at their peak ovulation during their cycle. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/McClintock_effect

IMO, there are many factors, but there is no denying that there are certain days of the month/year that women want to get fcuked hard by you or some other pimp regardless if you're playing Mozart, Lil' Wayne or RnB.

Either way, props for being aware of the signs and closing the deal!! :cheer:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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