Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Muscles To Big for Age

TheLegace

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Can Muscles be to big for the age....... Its not that big of a problem rite now, cuz im fat, but ive been doing gym for a while, and i already have huge bones(not a fat excuse) and broad shoulders so i look pretty huge. Rite now my tricep is quite flabby, but bicep coming along quite good, and making my arm look quite huge, I am 15, my arms look huge, they dont look porpotionately correct, just to bulky, its as if im using steriods, but anyway should i worry about something like that, im not forcing my body or anything just a moderate weight workout. Should I even worry too much.

But I am betting diet is prolly big issue, to really following one, because i cant afford to, but i really do plan to.
Thanx
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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manuva

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Get your bodyfat percentage down to 10 or 12, then see how you look. I'm guessing you got a whole bunch of subcutaneous fat filling you out.
 

DonJuanMonk

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When I was 15, I was interested in checking out the latest video games or doign pranks with fellow students.

Kids these days, god damn fuking republicans messing their education up.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jay-X

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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
When I was 15, I was interested in checking out the latest video games or doign pranks with fellow students.

Kids these days, god damn fuking republicans messing their education up.
that's the kind of stuff you usually do when you are 12, not 15...
 

semag

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Originally posted by TheLegace
....making my arm look quite huge, I am 15, my arms look huge
hehehe.... 13"? :D
 
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