"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Muscles To Big for Age

TheLegace

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Can Muscles be to big for the age....... Its not that big of a problem rite now, cuz im fat, but ive been doing gym for a while, and i already have huge bones(not a fat excuse) and broad shoulders so i look pretty huge. Rite now my tricep is quite flabby, but bicep coming along quite good, and making my arm look quite huge, I am 15, my arms look huge, they dont look porpotionately correct, just to bulky, its as if im using steriods, but anyway should i worry about something like that, im not forcing my body or anything just a moderate weight workout. Should I even worry too much.

But I am betting diet is prolly big issue, to really following one, because i cant afford to, but i really do plan to.
Thanx
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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manuva

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Get your bodyfat percentage down to 10 or 12, then see how you look. I'm guessing you got a whole bunch of subcutaneous fat filling you out.
 

DonJuanMonk

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When I was 15, I was interested in checking out the latest video games or doign pranks with fellow students.

Kids these days, god damn fuking republicans messing their education up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Jay-X

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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
When I was 15, I was interested in checking out the latest video games or doign pranks with fellow students.

Kids these days, god damn fuking republicans messing their education up.
that's the kind of stuff you usually do when you are 12, not 15...
 

semag

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Originally posted by TheLegace
....making my arm look quite huge, I am 15, my arms look huge
hehehe.... 13"? :D
 
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