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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Muscle Tear Down vs Rest

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The rest period seems easy to set - a day, or as long as soreness persists, sometimes 2-3 days when just starting out.

But what about the length of the tear down period? For someone who works out at home, how many hours is optimal in terms of setting a time frame to work a muscle group? With rest, I can always keep doing more reps of anything. A day for a muscle group, maybe? I don't know exactly when to stop and begin the rest period. Soreness doesn't set in until about 24 hours, so maybe a day is the answer.
 

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What if you kept doing more reps all day? As long as you don't injure yourself, it seems like that would be optimal.

I've never seriously lifted weights or gotten into bodybuilding. I'm just doing pullups, dips and using a heavy bag at home. I work from home, so I'm around all the time. I can keep going back and hitting muscle failure if I rest. I would guess there's got to be an optimum number of hours to keep doing that, but I don't know what it would be.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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