"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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muscle size attracts women?

Fuglydude

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Jitterbug said:
I'm about the same height & weight as Fug, but with higher BF% (17~18, I think). Cougars and certain girls just could not help their hands on my shoulders, arms, chest etc. As soon as I say, for example, I have a sore shoulder, there'll be one of them rushing to give me a massage and somehow one hand will end up on my chest :p. Will be interesting to see what happens when I lean down over the next few months. In long term, I plan to be between 180~185lbs <14% BF, mostly for my powerlifting comps (83kg class).
Jitter, when you're leaner the random groping you describe is typically followed by a $5-20 bill in your underwear after :D

Lean and big is the best way to go if you're looking to get laid... you really don't need game when you look good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jitterbug

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Sounds awesome, can't wait! :D
 

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true, but I'm lean right now and was at the club this weekend lording it up and taking all the girls attention with my fun and charisma when the big handsome guys were standing around giving me the jealous stink eye and getting no attention.
 

zekko

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yuppaz said:
true, but I'm lean right now and was at the club this weekend lording it up and taking all the girls attention with my fun and charisma when the big handsome guys were standing around giving me the jealous stink eye and getting no attention.
Fun and charisma are hard to fake, I think.
I know a lot of RSD stuff is based on trying to psych yourself up into this state of mind where you are fun and charismatic.
When you're in that zone it comes natural.
But it's a hard thing to do if you aren't feeling it.
 

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Just look on the cover of just about EVERY paperback romance novel and tell me what you see guys? Hmm?

Do you think a girl would fantasize about what the book would be like if they put Mr. Pretzel dude with a pocket protector on the cover?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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