"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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muscle size attracts women?

Fuglydude

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Jitterbug said:
I'm about the same height & weight as Fug, but with higher BF% (17~18, I think). Cougars and certain girls just could not help their hands on my shoulders, arms, chest etc. As soon as I say, for example, I have a sore shoulder, there'll be one of them rushing to give me a massage and somehow one hand will end up on my chest :p. Will be interesting to see what happens when I lean down over the next few months. In long term, I plan to be between 180~185lbs <14% BF, mostly for my powerlifting comps (83kg class).
Jitter, when you're leaner the random groping you describe is typically followed by a $5-20 bill in your underwear after :D

Lean and big is the best way to go if you're looking to get laid... you really don't need game when you look good.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sounds awesome, can't wait! :D
 

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true, but I'm lean right now and was at the club this weekend lording it up and taking all the girls attention with my fun and charisma when the big handsome guys were standing around giving me the jealous stink eye and getting no attention.
 

zekko

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yuppaz said:
true, but I'm lean right now and was at the club this weekend lording it up and taking all the girls attention with my fun and charisma when the big handsome guys were standing around giving me the jealous stink eye and getting no attention.
Fun and charisma are hard to fake, I think.
I know a lot of RSD stuff is based on trying to psych yourself up into this state of mind where you are fun and charismatic.
When you're in that zone it comes natural.
But it's a hard thing to do if you aren't feeling it.
 

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Just look on the cover of just about EVERY paperback romance novel and tell me what you see guys? Hmm?

Do you think a girl would fantasize about what the book would be like if they put Mr. Pretzel dude with a pocket protector on the cover?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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