"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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muscle size attracts women?

Fuglydude

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Jitterbug said:
I'm about the same height & weight as Fug, but with higher BF% (17~18, I think). Cougars and certain girls just could not help their hands on my shoulders, arms, chest etc. As soon as I say, for example, I have a sore shoulder, there'll be one of them rushing to give me a massage and somehow one hand will end up on my chest :p. Will be interesting to see what happens when I lean down over the next few months. In long term, I plan to be between 180~185lbs <14% BF, mostly for my powerlifting comps (83kg class).
Jitter, when you're leaner the random groping you describe is typically followed by a $5-20 bill in your underwear after :D

Lean and big is the best way to go if you're looking to get laid... you really don't need game when you look good.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sounds awesome, can't wait! :D
 

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true, but I'm lean right now and was at the club this weekend lording it up and taking all the girls attention with my fun and charisma when the big handsome guys were standing around giving me the jealous stink eye and getting no attention.
 

zekko

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yuppaz said:
true, but I'm lean right now and was at the club this weekend lording it up and taking all the girls attention with my fun and charisma when the big handsome guys were standing around giving me the jealous stink eye and getting no attention.
Fun and charisma are hard to fake, I think.
I know a lot of RSD stuff is based on trying to psych yourself up into this state of mind where you are fun and charismatic.
When you're in that zone it comes natural.
But it's a hard thing to do if you aren't feeling it.
 

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Just look on the cover of just about EVERY paperback romance novel and tell me what you see guys? Hmm?

Do you think a girl would fantasize about what the book would be like if they put Mr. Pretzel dude with a pocket protector on the cover?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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