"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ApC23

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...this chick im intersted in...i saw her email on my buddies facebook account when he was showin me some ppl...is it weird if i add her without asking her for her email?...i dunno
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if its out there with her saying to chat or whatever then its fine.

but if u were in her position and ur not really familiar with eachother then i think u should ask her cuz she might get the "weird" vibes when u start chatting.

and thats a feeling u don't wanna be stuck in.
 
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Just ask her the next time you see her.

"Hey, I saw you on friendster. What's your email?"
 
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GaryUranga

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Ive added chicks out of like askin friends for her email, I just tell them I got their email from an email someone sent me (I dunno what it even means) but theyre always ok with it, and theyre hawt girls.
 
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If you like her, then you've seen her in person.

If you've seen her in person, do it again. And talk to her, for real.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oh my gosh... sad...

First: Facebook is weak. If you have to have some sorta online habitat to attempt to spawn in, get a myspace, that way you can add, message and chat to your hearts content without being a complete wierdo.

Second: You memorized her email with one look??
Third: If you buddy knows her, tell him to stop being a c0ck and hook you up.
Fourth: In the case your buddy is c0ck and doesn't hook you up, get whatever it is you need in person.

From what i've read here i can tell you that you've lost her already. You are seeking her, not the other way around. She is the prize, not you. Change your mind state before you mack bro.
 
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