"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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...this chick im intersted in...i saw her email on my buddies facebook account when he was showin me some ppl...is it weird if i add her without asking her for her email?...i dunno
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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if its out there with her saying to chat or whatever then its fine.

but if u were in her position and ur not really familiar with eachother then i think u should ask her cuz she might get the "weird" vibes when u start chatting.

and thats a feeling u don't wanna be stuck in.
 
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Just ask her the next time you see her.

"Hey, I saw you on friendster. What's your email?"
 
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Ive added chicks out of like askin friends for her email, I just tell them I got their email from an email someone sent me (I dunno what it even means) but theyre always ok with it, and theyre hawt girls.
 
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If you like her, then you've seen her in person.

If you've seen her in person, do it again. And talk to her, for real.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oh my gosh... sad...

First: Facebook is weak. If you have to have some sorta online habitat to attempt to spawn in, get a myspace, that way you can add, message and chat to your hearts content without being a complete wierdo.

Second: You memorized her email with one look??
Third: If you buddy knows her, tell him to stop being a c0ck and hook you up.
Fourth: In the case your buddy is c0ck and doesn't hook you up, get whatever it is you need in person.

From what i've read here i can tell you that you've lost her already. You are seeking her, not the other way around. She is the prize, not you. Change your mind state before you mack bro.
 
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