"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ApC23

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...this chick im intersted in...i saw her email on my buddies facebook account when he was showin me some ppl...is it weird if i add her without asking her for her email?...i dunno
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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if its out there with her saying to chat or whatever then its fine.

but if u were in her position and ur not really familiar with eachother then i think u should ask her cuz she might get the "weird" vibes when u start chatting.

and thats a feeling u don't wanna be stuck in.
 
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Just ask her the next time you see her.

"Hey, I saw you on friendster. What's your email?"
 
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Ive added chicks out of like askin friends for her email, I just tell them I got their email from an email someone sent me (I dunno what it even means) but theyre always ok with it, and theyre hawt girls.
 
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If you like her, then you've seen her in person.

If you've seen her in person, do it again. And talk to her, for real.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oh my gosh... sad...

First: Facebook is weak. If you have to have some sorta online habitat to attempt to spawn in, get a myspace, that way you can add, message and chat to your hearts content without being a complete wierdo.

Second: You memorized her email with one look??
Third: If you buddy knows her, tell him to stop being a c0ck and hook you up.
Fourth: In the case your buddy is c0ck and doesn't hook you up, get whatever it is you need in person.

From what i've read here i can tell you that you've lost her already. You are seeking her, not the other way around. She is the prize, not you. Change your mind state before you mack bro.
 
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