"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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read who has written it.

then ignore it. Can't trust a woman's opinion. plus she doesn't represent every girl in the world.
 

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clooney has a beard so it must be true !!

the sort of bolloks reasoning many women beleive into ( like astrology in a way)
 

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real alpha males eat chinese noodles.....
 

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Aazman said:
read who has written it.

then ignore it. Can't trust a woman's opinion. plus she doesn't represent every girl in the world.
lol good thing you pointed that out.

Anyways, what is everyone else facial hair like? I keep a clean shave now.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I looked best with a little stubble (maybe a day's growth). But I usually keep it clean shaven because it's too much of a pain to keep it trimmed short (and because I really should be clean shaven for my job).
 

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Anyways, what is everyone else facial hair like? I keep a clean shave now.
I think women like the looks of facial hair, it makes the guy look rugged. But I think they like the feel of the clean shaven guy. I used to have a goatee but the hair on my face is very stiff and it would irritate the girl's skin. So I shaved it off, plus it was getting too gray anyway. I'm sure a lot of guys have softer facial hair, mine is like steel wool and it's a bear shaving it off even.
 

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SeymourCake said:
lol good thing you pointed that out.

Anyways, what is everyone else facial hair like? I keep a clean shave now.
I used to keep it clean shaven but not anymore. I have struggled all my life with my image. I can't help it I have pretty boy good looks and a nice face. Having facial hair has given me that edge that I didn't have before. I look more mature and rough and not so much like a nice guy because of my pretty face. If you look like a nice guy/have a pretty face rather than a masculine face then you should definitely grow some facial hair.

The other reason being is that I try to follow the law. The holy Bible tells men to have a beard. It differentiates us from women and it's manly. It's this homosexual society that we're living in that tell us to have a smooth face and look like a woman when having a beard is the sign of a man.

But anyway I think it all comes down to how you look. If you look like a damn nice guy you should definitely grow some facial hair. If you look younger then what you really are you should definitely grow some facial hair. It makes you look like masculine simple as that.

If you got a masculine face then you don't facial hair need as much.
 

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i had 1 today at work as i was off work for a week and hadnt shaved for 2 got loads of attention from the girls and there 1 girl who is all over everytime i have a beard and is doesnt even look at me without,

any way i trimmed it today so the shadows still there and my beard aswell as i have a large scar on my chin it grows into an upside down crusty the clown just think about that ive been called devil man.

i have a baby face so need some
 

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My thoughts?

Don't believe everything a woman says, and this is just one woman, not every woman in the world.

And George Clooney is a damn celebrity with mad money. Isn't that alpha already? Sh*t!

Case dismissed. Have a nice day. This court is adjourned.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There's nothing Alpha Male about growing a beard just because one chick on a website tells you to do so.
 

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After having a beard for over a year, I'm feeling an old-school look now. I'm doing the full shave in the morning, and an extra touch-up after work to get rid of that 5 o'clock shadow. Rocking a lot of button-ups.

Anyway, who gives a ****, you do whatever style you're feeling at the time.
 

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having facial hair is a secondary sex characteristics symbolizing presence of male hormones......so, yes well kept facial hair, but not too much of it will make you more manly.

If you can grow a nice dense stubble - good, plus it make the face look more angular, and more outdoorsy, more fun, more casual. That's what I have myself.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yeah it does make you look older and more manly, i've alway's suffered from boyish looks which i think put alot of women off.

So i've grown me some long sideburns with a goatee and mustache.

Gonna try it for awhile and see how thing's go.
 

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Demonicale said:
Yeah it does make you look older and more manly, i've alway's suffered from boyish looks which i think put alot of women off.

So i've grown me some long sideburns with a goatee and mustache.
Exactly my problem that's why I had to grow a beard. It doesn't look very good as it takes me me a while to grow facial hair but it does help me look manlier.
 
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