"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Mr Totally Invisible?

SaucyBoy

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I've been Mr Totally Invisible most of my life. Frankly I'm a computer geek and programmer. Ho-hum. Well, I make good money. Have a nice house, with a fireplace in the bedroom (note the connotations).

Can't say I have a great body. I do think I have found a way out of being MTI (Mr Totally Invisible). You have to work out, and been seen to work out. Do strength training. If you are this then no matter else what you are you'll be surprised at the changes. Libido is through the roof after just a couple of months. If you can channel this message out into the women they'll respond (we know that). How to commuicate my sensual nature in the most direct (and legal) way?

Does it make sense to turn the tables on the hot babes and show them what I have by wearing tight shorts to the Subway? Show off my submarine sandwich? Of course if I look ridiculous this won't work. So Work Out, Work Out, you fool.

Will this make me look gay?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Zen Energy

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to put it bluntly, yes you will look gay. I personally don't see the appeal of a big musclebound stud muffin with tight shorts, then again, im not a woman. EHEHEHE!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tmpgstx

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Forget about girls Saucy, programmers are chronically single. You might get laid once every 10 years, and will relish it. A chic is like a comet that comes streaking into your orbit every 10 years or so.

Propose to Rosie Palms now kid.
 
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