"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mr Totally Invisible?

SaucyBoy

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I've been Mr Totally Invisible most of my life. Frankly I'm a computer geek and programmer. Ho-hum. Well, I make good money. Have a nice house, with a fireplace in the bedroom (note the connotations).

Can't say I have a great body. I do think I have found a way out of being MTI (Mr Totally Invisible). You have to work out, and been seen to work out. Do strength training. If you are this then no matter else what you are you'll be surprised at the changes. Libido is through the roof after just a couple of months. If you can channel this message out into the women they'll respond (we know that). How to commuicate my sensual nature in the most direct (and legal) way?

Does it make sense to turn the tables on the hot babes and show them what I have by wearing tight shorts to the Subway? Show off my submarine sandwich? Of course if I look ridiculous this won't work. So Work Out, Work Out, you fool.

Will this make me look gay?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Zen Energy

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to put it bluntly, yes you will look gay. I personally don't see the appeal of a big musclebound stud muffin with tight shorts, then again, im not a woman. EHEHEHE!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tmpgstx

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Forget about girls Saucy, programmers are chronically single. You might get laid once every 10 years, and will relish it. A chic is like a comet that comes streaking into your orbit every 10 years or so.

Propose to Rosie Palms now kid.
 
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