"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mr Totally Invisible?

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SaucyBoy

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I've been Mr Totally Invisible most of my life. Frankly I'm a computer geek and programmer. Ho-hum. Well, I make good money. Have a nice house, with a fireplace in the bedroom (note the connotations).

Can't say I have a great body. I do think I have found a way out of being MTI (Mr Totally Invisible). You have to work out, and been seen to work out. Do strength training. If you are this then no matter else what you are you'll be surprised at the changes. Libido is through the roof after just a couple of months. If you can channel this message out into the women they'll respond (we know that). How to commuicate my sensual nature in the most direct (and legal) way?

Does it make sense to turn the tables on the hot babes and show them what I have by wearing tight shorts to the Subway? Show off my submarine sandwich? Of course if I look ridiculous this won't work. So Work Out, Work Out, you fool.

Will this make me look gay?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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to put it bluntly, yes you will look gay. I personally don't see the appeal of a big musclebound stud muffin with tight shorts, then again, im not a woman. EHEHEHE!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Forget about girls Saucy, programmers are chronically single. You might get laid once every 10 years, and will relish it. A chic is like a comet that comes streaking into your orbit every 10 years or so.

Propose to Rosie Palms now kid.
 
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