Snake-eyes
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So things for me in Cali aren’t going to well, or at least the way I want too. Who here is from Phoenix?? I would like some pointers on the night life, girls, economy
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Moving to Phoenix Arizona
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
dk1990S111
Master Don Juan
Live in northern AZ, if I didn’t have my business here I might consider Scottsdale. Lot more options down there than up here lol
Snake-eyes
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What can you say about Phoenix in general
dk1990S111
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Hot lol on my phone so can’t see where you are in CA if you have it on your profile but I moved from LA. Houses are cheap so more money for toys if you get a good job
Snake-eyes
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Yeah I’m Escondido Cali, i have CDL so finding a job won’t be an issue and buying toys is a must lol. Primary reason why I moving out is cause of the rent. How’s the girls out there too ?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
BeExcellent
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Advice from the old lady:
I'm in Scottsdale about 50% of the time, maybe a little more now honestly. In Tempe you have ASU and so there are lots of beautiful women around here. There are also lots of gold diggers once you get outside the college demographic. Its not quite as fake as Las Vegas or LA, but it's trying to be, lol. People tend to be active and fit compared to other parts of the US. I'd say fit along the lines of San Diego. There are great places to go all over town and there is no shortage of single people.
PM me if you want some pointers. I'm old enough to be your mom, but I was in the nightclub business and stay pretty up on where the good places to go are.
There are also tons of Meet Ups for various interests.
Right now for example I'm working at a local coffee house I like to use as an office. The table next to me has three very cute women seated there working on their studies. They are all thin and have long pretty hair and very little makeup. Smart and fresh faced young women. So if you know where to go you'll do just fine here depending on what you are seeking.
I'm in Scottsdale about 50% of the time, maybe a little more now honestly. In Tempe you have ASU and so there are lots of beautiful women around here. There are also lots of gold diggers once you get outside the college demographic. Its not quite as fake as Las Vegas or LA, but it's trying to be, lol. People tend to be active and fit compared to other parts of the US. I'd say fit along the lines of San Diego. There are great places to go all over town and there is no shortage of single people.
PM me if you want some pointers. I'm old enough to be your mom, but I was in the nightclub business and stay pretty up on where the good places to go are.
There are also tons of Meet Ups for various interests.
Right now for example I'm working at a local coffee house I like to use as an office. The table next to me has three very cute women seated there working on their studies. They are all thin and have long pretty hair and very little makeup. Smart and fresh faced young women. So if you know where to go you'll do just fine here depending on what you are seeking.
MatureDJ
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I spent a few months in Phoenix. One September afternoon I went walking around the ASU campus, and all I could remember was seeing a few tight-bodied coeds with cropped shirts (of course, it was 100+ F temperature). I also remember a sports bar I would frequent, and there seemed to be a lot of women that were either trannies, or just really ugly. 
Lots of fat Mexican chicks all around too.
Lots of fat Mexican chicks all around too.