"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Moving to Phoenix Arizona

Snake-eyes

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So things for me in Cali aren’t going to well, or at least the way I want too. Who here is from Phoenix?? I would like some pointers on the night life, girls, economy
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dk1990S111

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Live in northern AZ, if I didn’t have my business here I might consider Scottsdale. Lot more options down there than up here lol
 

Snake-eyes

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Yeah I’m Escondido Cali, i have CDL so finding a job won’t be an issue and buying toys is a must lol. Primary reason why I moving out is cause of the rent. How’s the girls out there too ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BeExcellent

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Advice from the old lady:

I'm in Scottsdale about 50% of the time, maybe a little more now honestly. In Tempe you have ASU and so there are lots of beautiful women around here. There are also lots of gold diggers once you get outside the college demographic. Its not quite as fake as Las Vegas or LA, but it's trying to be, lol. People tend to be active and fit compared to other parts of the US. I'd say fit along the lines of San Diego. There are great places to go all over town and there is no shortage of single people.

PM me if you want some pointers. I'm old enough to be your mom, but I was in the nightclub business and stay pretty up on where the good places to go are.

There are also tons of Meet Ups for various interests.

Right now for example I'm working at a local coffee house I like to use as an office. The table next to me has three very cute women seated there working on their studies. They are all thin and have long pretty hair and very little makeup. Smart and fresh faced young women. So if you know where to go you'll do just fine here depending on what you are seeking.
 

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I spent a few months in Phoenix. One September afternoon I went walking around the ASU campus, and all I could remember was seeing a few tight-bodied coeds with cropped shirts (of course, it was 100+ F temperature). I also remember a sports bar I would frequent, and there seemed to be a lot of women that were either trannies, or just really ugly. o_O Lots of fat Mexican chicks all around too.
 
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