"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Moving to China in February
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
cordoncordon
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Why are you moving to China of all countries? Didn't you just move back home from Taiwan?zinc4 said:
FOB is Fresh off the boat. In other words very ethnic looking and acting.
I don't think you can pump and dump in China like you can in Taiwan. They are much more strict about ONS and sex without being serious then they are most other places.
Good luck and keep us posted.
Peaks&Valleys
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Why hasn't LiveFreeX responded yet?
Oh, I know why. Every time he starts to read this thread he blows his load and has to go change his shorts.
Oh, I know why. Every time he starts to read this thread he blows his load and has to go change his shorts.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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if ur a foreign guy ur gona have the time of ur life there... All the Chinese girls at the clubs love foreigners.. U barley will have to game them at all and u will get beautiful girls flocking to u especially in Shanghai, the clubbing scene is fairly international
my advice is the clubs in Shanghai are way way too loud… wear ear protection. Check out M2 when you are in Shanghai. The only part I hate about it is people keep walking into you and knocking you out of balance -- bad clubbing etiquette. Smokes are bad as well (I hate clubs full of cigarette smells).zinc4 said:
Beijing has better clubs. I like Mix and Vics (right next to each other). Higher girl ratio as well… a little better club etiquette.
LiveFreeX
Banned
Fvck that noise, those places are polluted as fvck. Come hang out in Guangzhou for awhile. In Shanghai you can expect snotty b1tches with their head stuck up their as$ to rival anything you've seen in America. Chengdu is basically a toxic waste dump, but I hear the girls are pretty nice there. My wife's mom is from there, probably why she's pretty.
Tier1 cities are the worst for stuck up broads and ONLY stuck up broads can afford to live in those places. If you want to meet decent women, you've got to go into the interior, like Hubei or up north closer to Xinjiang or even the South: Nanning/Guanxi.
http://www.chinasmack.com/2011/videos/no-car-no-house-song-chinese-leftover-women-version.html
Shameless, really... disgusting broads who think the world revolves around them.
多情的阳光 洒落在你的脸庞
Warm sunshine, shining on your face
看看周围的小伙 个个都挺娘
Looking at the young guys all around, every one of them are very girly
女人的渴望就是要有车和房
Having a house and a car is what women long for
嫁对人是最大的愿望
Marrying the right person is the biggest wish
问你有没有车问你有没有房
Asking you if you have a car, asking you if you have a house
我妈妈她也问你存折有几张
My mother will also ask you how much savings you have
假如你没有车 假如你也没有房
If you have no car, if you also have no house
赶紧靠边别把路来挡
Hurry move aside and don’t block my way
我也有车 我也有房
I also have a car, I also have a house
还有人民币在银行
As well as RMB in the bank
你们要是还没有我强
If you guys aren’t even as capable as me
别吃软饭我不是你的娘
Don’t depend on me, I’m not your mother
你没有车 你没有房
You don’t have a car, you don’t have a house
别想把美女泡上床
Don’t expect to get a beauty into bed
装穷哥你不就开个破宝马
Pretending to be poor, you only drive a lousy BMW
别装大款你把我来包养
Don’t pretend you’re a rich guy who can keep me as his mistress
x2
你没有车 你没有房
You don’t have a car, you don’t have a house
你还想结婚当新郎
Yet you still want to get married and be a groom
如果你生活都没奔小康
If your life isn’t well off
凭什么我和你去流浪
Why should I accompany you in wandering
你说我现实我承认也无妨
You say I am realistic/practical, that I may as well admit
骂我拜金我也不受伤
You can call me a gold-digger and I won’t feel hurt
男人总得有个男人的模样
A man after all should be like a man
没车没房 你别想找新娘
Without a car, without a house, forget about finding a bride
This describes Shanghai/Beijing b1tches to a tee.
China's B1tches hang out at clubs, ask the typical Chinese and they'll spit, blow their nose and probably piss on the side of the street in disgust.
Really, you are only going to find gold diggers in clubs, its not the USA... clubs are the 'den of evil' in China and only the rich can afford to get into them. The average girl dreams of one day having a day off from her 6 1/2 day work week to TRY a KFC dinner (which she probably can't afford) because she's sending money back to the countryside to pay for her mom and dad, grandma/grandpa to live on. Then you get the Chinese spoiled garbage who were born into money, carried around by their grandparents and sent overseas to go to school. They will never have to work for anything and they have no idea what it means to 'get a job' or the value of a dollar. Daddy and mummy have paid their way for everything and will continue to do so until she marries, where it will then be YOUR job to takeover making payments. These are just western broads with slant eyes, they can't cook, clean or do anything meaningful save laying on their backs and pumping out a baby.
Don't hang at clubs, don't base your interactions with Chinese girls around the rich, they are all dumpy pieces of spoiled sh1t. There is no game in China, any chick who requires it, is a good for nothing WESTERNIZED b1tch. If a girl isn't hitting you up for marriage after first sex then she isn't really Chinese.
Woops
Apologies, I missed this:
In that case, hit up all the clubs and star bucks cafe's you can find. Also hang out at the Universities AND most of all go down to WALLSTREET ENGLISH, there you will find 100's of single, dumb, rich broads who are looking for exactly that. Also WEBB has a ton and EF ENGLISHTOWN... you can even hang out beside the cafe's and bookstores around those centers and meet the students.. just go and ask if you can see the DOS and tell him you are looking for a job and was hoping you could sit in on a class or some sh1t. Then just start asking the students if they'll show you around the city. ALSO the staff in all of those places are made up of spoiled rich girls with degree's that no one wants, so you have an absolute TON of chicks to choose from. All of those women are looking for ways to practice their english so you could easily pickup loads of women from around there. If you were coming to Guangzhou, I could just take you to the 'end' of town these chicks frequent and drop you off. There is one snooty bookstore in particular that they all hang out at. Look for girls reading stuff in the ENGLISH sections of book stores, they WANT to meet you very badly.
Infact, what am I saying... just walk into a school and tell them you want to be a teacher there. Then ask to watch a bunch of their classes and set a day when you will do a 'demo' for them. Tell them you are going to go home to get a work visa and would like a contract...anyway while you are talking to the HR girls/secretaries (they are ALL women), start laying game and getting everyone's phone numbers... then ask if they'd like to get a milktea at Daikasi or wheverver with you. Its like shooting fish in a barrel dude.
Tier1 cities are the worst for stuck up broads and ONLY stuck up broads can afford to live in those places. If you want to meet decent women, you've got to go into the interior, like Hubei or up north closer to Xinjiang or even the South: Nanning/Guanxi.
http://www.chinasmack.com/2011/videos/no-car-no-house-song-chinese-leftover-women-version.html
Shameless, really... disgusting broads who think the world revolves around them.
多情的阳光 洒落在你的脸庞
Warm sunshine, shining on your face
看看周围的小伙 个个都挺娘
Looking at the young guys all around, every one of them are very girly
女人的渴望就是要有车和房
Having a house and a car is what women long for
嫁对人是最大的愿望
Marrying the right person is the biggest wish
问你有没有车问你有没有房
Asking you if you have a car, asking you if you have a house
我妈妈她也问你存折有几张
My mother will also ask you how much savings you have
假如你没有车 假如你也没有房
If you have no car, if you also have no house
赶紧靠边别把路来挡
Hurry move aside and don’t block my way
我也有车 我也有房
I also have a car, I also have a house
还有人民币在银行
As well as RMB in the bank
你们要是还没有我强
If you guys aren’t even as capable as me
别吃软饭我不是你的娘
Don’t depend on me, I’m not your mother
你没有车 你没有房
You don’t have a car, you don’t have a house
别想把美女泡上床
Don’t expect to get a beauty into bed
装穷哥你不就开个破宝马
Pretending to be poor, you only drive a lousy BMW
别装大款你把我来包养
Don’t pretend you’re a rich guy who can keep me as his mistress
x2
你没有车 你没有房
You don’t have a car, you don’t have a house
你还想结婚当新郎
Yet you still want to get married and be a groom
如果你生活都没奔小康
If your life isn’t well off
凭什么我和你去流浪
Why should I accompany you in wandering
你说我现实我承认也无妨
You say I am realistic/practical, that I may as well admit
骂我拜金我也不受伤
You can call me a gold-digger and I won’t feel hurt
男人总得有个男人的模样
A man after all should be like a man
没车没房 你别想找新娘
Without a car, without a house, forget about finding a bride
This describes Shanghai/Beijing b1tches to a tee.
China's B1tches hang out at clubs, ask the typical Chinese and they'll spit, blow their nose and probably piss on the side of the street in disgust.
Really, you are only going to find gold diggers in clubs, its not the USA... clubs are the 'den of evil' in China and only the rich can afford to get into them. The average girl dreams of one day having a day off from her 6 1/2 day work week to TRY a KFC dinner (which she probably can't afford) because she's sending money back to the countryside to pay for her mom and dad, grandma/grandpa to live on. Then you get the Chinese spoiled garbage who were born into money, carried around by their grandparents and sent overseas to go to school. They will never have to work for anything and they have no idea what it means to 'get a job' or the value of a dollar. Daddy and mummy have paid their way for everything and will continue to do so until she marries, where it will then be YOUR job to takeover making payments. These are just western broads with slant eyes, they can't cook, clean or do anything meaningful save laying on their backs and pumping out a baby.Don't hang at clubs, don't base your interactions with Chinese girls around the rich, they are all dumpy pieces of spoiled sh1t. There is no game in China, any chick who requires it, is a good for nothing WESTERNIZED b1tch. If a girl isn't hitting you up for marriage after first sex then she isn't really Chinese.
Woops
Apologies, I missed this:
(Fresh Off The Boat) only applies when you are inside the West.
In that case, hit up all the clubs and star bucks cafe's you can find. Also hang out at the Universities AND most of all go down to WALLSTREET ENGLISH, there you will find 100's of single, dumb, rich broads who are looking for exactly that. Also WEBB has a ton and EF ENGLISHTOWN... you can even hang out beside the cafe's and bookstores around those centers and meet the students.. just go and ask if you can see the DOS and tell him you are looking for a job and was hoping you could sit in on a class or some sh1t. Then just start asking the students if they'll show you around the city. ALSO the staff in all of those places are made up of spoiled rich girls with degree's that no one wants, so you have an absolute TON of chicks to choose from. All of those women are looking for ways to practice their english so you could easily pickup loads of women from around there. If you were coming to Guangzhou, I could just take you to the 'end' of town these chicks frequent and drop you off. There is one snooty bookstore in particular that they all hang out at. Look for girls reading stuff in the ENGLISH sections of book stores, they WANT to meet you very badly.
Infact, what am I saying... just walk into a school and tell them you want to be a teacher there. Then ask to watch a bunch of their classes and set a day when you will do a 'demo' for them. Tell them you are going to go home to get a work visa and would like a contract...anyway while you are talking to the HR girls/secretaries (they are ALL women), start laying game and getting everyone's phone numbers... then ask if they'd like to get a milktea at Daikasi or wheverver with you. Its like shooting fish in a barrel dude.
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LiveFreeX
Banned
Eh. I just thought of something, if you go up to Beijing or SHanghai, go to the CLOTHING MARKETS where you are going to get really ripped off. That's ok... its ALL women who work there. You'll get sooooooo many numbers, you'd better bring a spare phone with you. nEVER EVER pay more than 10 bucks to have lunch with any of these b1tches. Tell them you want to take them to a good LANZHOU restaurant you know... it shouldn't cost you more than 2 bucks a plate so in total like 5 bucks or 6 if you get a bubble tea to go with it. If you really want to impress them, take them over to McDonalds. Xinjiang BBQ is a winner pretty much everywhere and will probably only cost you 1 or 2 bucks for an entire meal. Be prepared to blow flames out of your ass later though.
Before you go LEARN THE CHINESE birth signs. Like Monkey, Tiger, Snake... women eat this sh1t up like it's Taiwanese bubble tea.
Guy it is perpetual summer here in GZ and guangdong province, its also cheap as fvck to live here. It gets COLD in Shanghai and in general the weather up there sucks balls, same for dogdu. Its probably cheaper for an apartment in Chengdu but then you gotta wake up to a green and purple skyline everyday. There is no central heating btw, so prep to freeze your balls off, the only place you'll find that is Urumqi. Shanghai a 2bd apartment will run you around $500 to $1000/month. GZ will run you $500 at most. In a tier 2 city, maybe half that for a place twice as big. I;m not sure if you've ever heard of it but DONG GUAN is China's Nevada state.
If you do decide to stay in SH or Chengdu then you NEED to get an air purifier. You can buy them from SUNNING for about 800 RMB and get about 20 snake plants to put in your room/apartment.
Finally you want access to non-stop women? Enroll or go hang out at a beutician school. Its all women, almost all of them are HOT and most are single. I went the other day with my wife to enroll her and my god, there must have been 2 or 300 HOT women walking around, giggling and waving at me. If I were single again, that would be the first place I hit.
Before you go LEARN THE CHINESE birth signs. Like Monkey, Tiger, Snake... women eat this sh1t up like it's Taiwanese bubble tea.
Guy it is perpetual summer here in GZ and guangdong province, its also cheap as fvck to live here. It gets COLD in Shanghai and in general the weather up there sucks balls, same for dogdu. Its probably cheaper for an apartment in Chengdu but then you gotta wake up to a green and purple skyline everyday. There is no central heating btw, so prep to freeze your balls off, the only place you'll find that is Urumqi. Shanghai a 2bd apartment will run you around $500 to $1000/month. GZ will run you $500 at most. In a tier 2 city, maybe half that for a place twice as big. I;m not sure if you've ever heard of it but DONG GUAN is China's Nevada state.
If you do decide to stay in SH or Chengdu then you NEED to get an air purifier. You can buy them from SUNNING for about 800 RMB and get about 20 snake plants to put in your room/apartment.
Finally you want access to non-stop women? Enroll or go hang out at a beutician school. Its all women, almost all of them are HOT and most are single. I went the other day with my wife to enroll her and my god, there must have been 2 or 300 HOT women walking around, giggling and waving at me. If I were single again, that would be the first place I hit.
:rockon:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.