"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Moving to a new City and LDR’s

soulforge

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I live in Miami and she lives in Orlando (3 hrs) she always says how she hates Miami cause it’s overpopulated and **** which honestly I hate miami too and i only moved down here cause i didn’t have enough to move out. I spoke with her and told her that if we don’t see eachother atleast once a month then I’m not down for anything and she agreed.
Seeing each other once a month is NOTHING man.

How the hell are you going to sustain and nurture a relationship, by seeing each other once a month.

This looks like a disaster waiting to happen.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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soulforge

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So just have her as a **** buddy or nothing pretty much, anything that doesn’t make me give up meeting other women

Unless she decides to move for you, sooner than later, I would strictly just have a casual sex type situation with her.. Nothing more
 

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Seeing each other once a month is NOTHING man.

How the hell are you going to sustain and nurture a relationship, by seeing each other once a month.

This looks like a disaster waiting to happen.
Honestly I want to see how the visit plays out but I honestly ever since that have been trying to get into plate spinning. I have issues meeting people in social events so for now I’ve just been forcing myself to go to crowded places just to see that it isn’t as bad as I play it out to be in my mind
 

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Based on everything you typed here you won’t be having sex with her.

It’s time for you learn “game”. Read stickies/articles here, watch YouTube videos, cold approaches find an education source that clicks with you etc. Take the next 4 years and get it down. Let me know if you want some resources.
 

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Unless she decides to move for you, sooner than later, I would strictly just have a casual sex type situation with her.. Nothing more
Lol and the funny part is that she’s said that if she has to move more than a 1hr 30mins away from her family she wouldn’t do it. Honeslty
Based on everything you typed here you won’t be having sex with her.

It’s time for you learn “game”. Read stickies/articles here, watch YouTube videos, cold approaches find an education source that clicks with you etc. Take the next 4 years and get it down. Let me know if you want some resources.
Send them my way, I’ve recently looked into AMS, No More Mr Nice Guy, and Rational Male. Funny enough I literally just started reading over the part where he talks about immaginary friends. Sign from God, who knows.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Based on everything you typed here you won’t be having sex with her.

It’s time for you learn “game”. Read stickies/articles here, watch YouTube videos, cold approaches find an education source that clicks with you etc. Take the next 4 years and get it down. Let me know if you want some resources.

Lol and the funny part is that she’s said that if she has to move more than a 1hr 30mins away from her family she wouldn’t do it. Honeslty


Send them my way, I’ve recently looked into AMS, No More Mr Nice Guy, and Rational Male. Funny enough I literally just started reading over the part where he talks about immaginary friends. Sign from God, who knows.

She told you, she wouldn't move, so you have your answer.. You can't make a relationship work seeing each other once a month..

Bang her in the azz next time you see her, then send her back home.. keep youroptions open.
 
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