"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Moving to a new City and LDR’s

soulforge

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I live in Miami and she lives in Orlando (3 hrs) she always says how she hates Miami cause it’s overpopulated and **** which honestly I hate miami too and i only moved down here cause i didn’t have enough to move out. I spoke with her and told her that if we don’t see eachother atleast once a month then I’m not down for anything and she agreed.
Seeing each other once a month is NOTHING man.

How the hell are you going to sustain and nurture a relationship, by seeing each other once a month.

This looks like a disaster waiting to happen.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So just have her as a **** buddy or nothing pretty much, anything that doesn’t make me give up meeting other women

Unless she decides to move for you, sooner than later, I would strictly just have a casual sex type situation with her.. Nothing more
 

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Seeing each other once a month is NOTHING man.

How the hell are you going to sustain and nurture a relationship, by seeing each other once a month.

This looks like a disaster waiting to happen.
Honestly I want to see how the visit plays out but I honestly ever since that have been trying to get into plate spinning. I have issues meeting people in social events so for now I’ve just been forcing myself to go to crowded places just to see that it isn’t as bad as I play it out to be in my mind
 

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Based on everything you typed here you won’t be having sex with her.

It’s time for you learn “game”. Read stickies/articles here, watch YouTube videos, cold approaches find an education source that clicks with you etc. Take the next 4 years and get it down. Let me know if you want some resources.
 

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Unless she decides to move for you, sooner than later, I would strictly just have a casual sex type situation with her.. Nothing more
Lol and the funny part is that she’s said that if she has to move more than a 1hr 30mins away from her family she wouldn’t do it. Honeslty
Based on everything you typed here you won’t be having sex with her.

It’s time for you learn “game”. Read stickies/articles here, watch YouTube videos, cold approaches find an education source that clicks with you etc. Take the next 4 years and get it down. Let me know if you want some resources.
Send them my way, I’ve recently looked into AMS, No More Mr Nice Guy, and Rational Male. Funny enough I literally just started reading over the part where he talks about immaginary friends. Sign from God, who knows.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Based on everything you typed here you won’t be having sex with her.

It’s time for you learn “game”. Read stickies/articles here, watch YouTube videos, cold approaches find an education source that clicks with you etc. Take the next 4 years and get it down. Let me know if you want some resources.

Lol and the funny part is that she’s said that if she has to move more than a 1hr 30mins away from her family she wouldn’t do it. Honeslty


Send them my way, I’ve recently looked into AMS, No More Mr Nice Guy, and Rational Male. Funny enough I literally just started reading over the part where he talks about immaginary friends. Sign from God, who knows.

She told you, she wouldn't move, so you have your answer.. You can't make a relationship work seeing each other once a month..

Bang her in the azz next time you see her, then send her back home.. keep youroptions open.
 
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