Okay, her's the scoop. There's this girl in band, her names Amanda and I want to go for that sh*t. The problem ofcourse is, we never have any time to talk. We're either marching or she's always surrounded by her friends and sh*t. So when should I approach her?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Moving things along with Amanda.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
every chick i ever knew named amanda seemed sweet and innocent at first and later turned into the most indecisive person i ever knew.
theres always something in a name.
theres always something in a name.
The Sperminator
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Lmao I was going to say the same thing. Amandas are bad news lol.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
What part of "Amanda's are bad news" don't you understand? You shouldn't talk to her. Move on!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Why seperate them? Charm them all.
PectoralisMajor
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j3sus lad - do you want us to do it for you? c'mon, your making this into a BIG thing, when its nothing...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Big thing? It's not a big thing. If I ask something, I seek an answer. I'm not asking you on advice on how to approach her, I can do that, but I'm unsure of where I should. C'mon dude, I've approached 20 girls in one night, trust me, approaching is not the problem.
I don't see a problem here. Me, personally I'd approach the whole group, but if u don't wanna do that I give u another idea.ElStud said:
If u can't go to her, let her come to you.
When she is with her friends, yell "Amanda, get over here for a second" and then u tell her that u wanna talk to her alone sometime.
KnockoutJM
Don Juan
"keep practiicing, it doesn't sound too good"
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Interesting you say this. I've dated a girl named amanda before and it never worked out! She broke up with me two or three times I believe then, always came back wanting me! :crazy:penkitten said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
ive known i dunno at least 50 amandas and they all seemed sweet and innocent at first and then you realize that they cant seem to make their minds up about things.I.A.F.Y.B. said:
i know its a bad thing to do, but name association is just something i do.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Cornerstone of the Mystery Method: open the guys, or the ugliest girl. Try to get Amanda to butt in to the conversation.
You might want to order his book and all, if you're really into it. It's the truth: truly beautiful women are not alone in public, basically ever.
You might want to order his book and all, if you're really into it. It's the truth: truly beautiful women are not alone in public, basically ever.