Okay, her's the scoop. There's this girl in band, her names Amanda and I want to go for that sh*t. The problem ofcourse is, we never have any time to talk. We're either marching or she's always surrounded by her friends and sh*t. So when should I approach her?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Moving things along with Amanda.
- Thread starter ElStud
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
every chick i ever knew named amanda seemed sweet and innocent at first and later turned into the most indecisive person i ever knew.
theres always something in a name.
theres always something in a name.
The Sperminator
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Lmao I was going to say the same thing. Amandas are bad news lol.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
What part of "Amanda's are bad news" don't you understand? You shouldn't talk to her. Move on!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Why seperate them? Charm them all.
PectoralisMajor
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j3sus lad - do you want us to do it for you? c'mon, your making this into a BIG thing, when its nothing...
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Big thing? It's not a big thing. If I ask something, I seek an answer. I'm not asking you on advice on how to approach her, I can do that, but I'm unsure of where I should. C'mon dude, I've approached 20 girls in one night, trust me, approaching is not the problem.
I don't see a problem here. Me, personally I'd approach the whole group, but if u don't wanna do that I give u another idea.ElStud said:
If u can't go to her, let her come to you.
When she is with her friends, yell "Amanda, get over here for a second" and then u tell her that u wanna talk to her alone sometime.
KnockoutJM
Don Juan
"keep practiicing, it doesn't sound too good"
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Interesting you say this. I've dated a girl named amanda before and it never worked out! She broke up with me two or three times I believe then, always came back wanting me! :crazy:penkitten said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
ive known i dunno at least 50 amandas and they all seemed sweet and innocent at first and then you realize that they cant seem to make their minds up about things.I.A.F.Y.B. said:
i know its a bad thing to do, but name association is just something i do.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Cornerstone of the Mystery Method: open the guys, or the ugliest girl. Try to get Amanda to butt in to the conversation.
You might want to order his book and all, if you're really into it. It's the truth: truly beautiful women are not alone in public, basically ever.
You might want to order his book and all, if you're really into it. It's the truth: truly beautiful women are not alone in public, basically ever.