"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Moving Targets To hit or not to hit?

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For the first time I tried to go to a mall and start with Week#1 saying Hi!. Amazingly I had hard time doing it. First of all 99% of women are walking and walking fast...
It seemed very unnatrual to stop any of them just to say hi, besides I was walking to..

So Question #1: should I try to greet moving females?
Or better get into a store and "stalk" sombody there with a nice
and cheerful "Hiii!"?

Question #2: It appear that if a woman is not attractive to me,
I dont want to greet her at all. Why? Hmm I can do that, I just didnt wanna waste the time, it would not increase my confidence.
But from the other hand, if she is attractive, oh then I usually got a bit stuck: and she is moving of course...
What do you think I have to greet all females or just those attractive ones who would boost my confidence?
Unattractive are seems too easy, but attractive seems too hard to
catch due to these constant motion in the mall.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dude if you are 20 something years old what are you doing trying to pick up at the mall. I am sorry but the only girls looking to pick up at the mall are under 16. Check out the skating rink while you are at it.

Bein harsh but true . . .

Make conversation when it fits.
If you and a woman are waiting for the subway, the subway(not the sandwich store) is a great place to meet women imo. Then make conversation.

Question are you in search mode or in training mode, if you are in training mode then you should always try and meet women.
IMO If you are in search mode then you should wait and pick your spots to meet and greet women.
 
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Originally posted by comote
Dude if you are 20 something years old what are you doing trying to pick up at the mall. I am sorry but the only girls looking to pick up at the mall are under 16. Check out the skating rink while you are at it.

Question are you in search mode or in training mode, if you are in training mode then you should always try and meet women.
IMO If you are in search mode then you should wait and pick your spots to meet and greet women.
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No malls ok, where'd I go? There is not subway here or veen city environment....

I just want to figure that out: so you do suggest to greet even walking women?
 
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