"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Moving Targets To hit or not to hit?

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For the first time I tried to go to a mall and start with Week#1 saying Hi!. Amazingly I had hard time doing it. First of all 99% of women are walking and walking fast...
It seemed very unnatrual to stop any of them just to say hi, besides I was walking to..

So Question #1: should I try to greet moving females?
Or better get into a store and "stalk" sombody there with a nice
and cheerful "Hiii!"?

Question #2: It appear that if a woman is not attractive to me,
I dont want to greet her at all. Why? Hmm I can do that, I just didnt wanna waste the time, it would not increase my confidence.
But from the other hand, if she is attractive, oh then I usually got a bit stuck: and she is moving of course...
What do you think I have to greet all females or just those attractive ones who would boost my confidence?
Unattractive are seems too easy, but attractive seems too hard to
catch due to these constant motion in the mall.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude if you are 20 something years old what are you doing trying to pick up at the mall. I am sorry but the only girls looking to pick up at the mall are under 16. Check out the skating rink while you are at it.

Bein harsh but true . . .

Make conversation when it fits.
If you and a woman are waiting for the subway, the subway(not the sandwich store) is a great place to meet women imo. Then make conversation.

Question are you in search mode or in training mode, if you are in training mode then you should always try and meet women.
IMO If you are in search mode then you should wait and pick your spots to meet and greet women.
 
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Originally posted by comote
Dude if you are 20 something years old what are you doing trying to pick up at the mall. I am sorry but the only girls looking to pick up at the mall are under 16. Check out the skating rink while you are at it.

Question are you in search mode or in training mode, if you are in training mode then you should always try and meet women.
IMO If you are in search mode then you should wait and pick your spots to meet and greet women.
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No malls ok, where'd I go? There is not subway here or veen city environment....

I just want to figure that out: so you do suggest to greet even walking women?
 
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