"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There are like two parts to San Jose. The east part with lots of crappy traffic and driving and where the Saturday night races go on and the west part with all the nice shopping malls and Stevens Creek area. If your dad is getting caught up in tech then you'll probably end up over on the west side. It's a calmer enviroment, but lots of people go to the west side for fun.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh an interesting tidbit...there are some nice lookin women at Santana Row which is on Stevens Creek Blvd. It's like the local Rodeo Drive/Beverly hills shiet. One cool thing about the place is that the have free outside movies each wednesday night during the summer. I just came back from there. Bunch of people go, bring blankets, snacks, and drinks, and watch the movie. It's tight. Snuggle up with your girl and enjoy. Tonight they showed Bringing Down the House. It was a good time.
 
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