Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Moving out to Cali soon

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There are like two parts to San Jose. The east part with lots of crappy traffic and driving and where the Saturday night races go on and the west part with all the nice shopping malls and Stevens Creek area. If your dad is getting caught up in tech then you'll probably end up over on the west side. It's a calmer enviroment, but lots of people go to the west side for fun.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oh an interesting tidbit...there are some nice lookin women at Santana Row which is on Stevens Creek Blvd. It's like the local Rodeo Drive/Beverly hills shiet. One cool thing about the place is that the have free outside movies each wednesday night during the summer. I just came back from there. Bunch of people go, bring blankets, snacks, and drinks, and watch the movie. It's tight. Snuggle up with your girl and enjoy. Tonight they showed Bringing Down the House. It was a good time.
 
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