"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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moving on to making out.

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supajsilver2

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Before this post is torn to shreds, keep in mind I'm a 15 year old freshman.

As if that would help me,

I dig my girl in a big way, and I know she digs me back just as much. But,
it took me way too long to get the first date, to even get the first kiss, and after two dates with nothing but a good night kiss or two and little response to kino or any advances at all, I need to make the jump into making out with her. I've never made out with a girl before (shut the hell up:) ). Zero experience. She's my first LTR kind of girlfriend, and I've been unsuccesful before. Her (single) mom is very strict, which is why it took awhile to land a date. The girlfriend has always followed her mother's orders to a T, something I have heard happens with girls with a single mom (no brother). I always get this vibe from her mom that, even though my gf claims she really really likes me, that I just shouldn't be there, the "nobody is good enough for my baby girl" feeling.:trouble:

Basically, I want to test her out, see if making out is cool, if not, I don't want to mess things up with her...

so anyway,

here's where you give me tips.

thanks.:up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well you could the trick that was passed on to me from some french dude and some other french dude before him, plus my twist.

Feel her hair and sort of brush the cheeks (on her FACE). If the response is good then kiss her near the mouth sorta between a goodnight and make out. If all is still well slide over.

It's worked for me ,since being the nseaky hole I am, there's no problems if she backs of, just say you sliped or something.

Pass on the knowledge and goodluck.
 
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LTR???? What the hell are you talking about? Protect your heart kid!

Think about that for a minute!

About the making out, you said you kissed her, on the next date just kiss her sooner, then kiss her some more. Its common sense, you don't need advice for that.
 
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:crackup: I know what you're saying Taviii, but whatever man:rock: ...thanks for the advice, steg too.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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