"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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moving on to making out.

supajsilver2

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Before this post is torn to shreds, keep in mind I'm a 15 year old freshman.

As if that would help me,

I dig my girl in a big way, and I know she digs me back just as much. But,
it took me way too long to get the first date, to even get the first kiss, and after two dates with nothing but a good night kiss or two and little response to kino or any advances at all, I need to make the jump into making out with her. I've never made out with a girl before (shut the hell up:) ). Zero experience. She's my first LTR kind of girlfriend, and I've been unsuccesful before. Her (single) mom is very strict, which is why it took awhile to land a date. The girlfriend has always followed her mother's orders to a T, something I have heard happens with girls with a single mom (no brother). I always get this vibe from her mom that, even though my gf claims she really really likes me, that I just shouldn't be there, the "nobody is good enough for my baby girl" feeling.:trouble:

Basically, I want to test her out, see if making out is cool, if not, I don't want to mess things up with her...

so anyway,

here's where you give me tips.

thanks.:up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well you could the trick that was passed on to me from some french dude and some other french dude before him, plus my twist.

Feel her hair and sort of brush the cheeks (on her FACE). If the response is good then kiss her near the mouth sorta between a goodnight and make out. If all is still well slide over.

It's worked for me ,since being the nseaky hole I am, there's no problems if she backs of, just say you sliped or something.

Pass on the knowledge and goodluck.
 

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LTR???? What the hell are you talking about? Protect your heart kid!

Think about that for a minute!

About the making out, you said you kissed her, on the next date just kiss her sooner, then kiss her some more. Its common sense, you don't need advice for that.
 

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:crackup: I know what you're saying Taviii, but whatever man:rock: ...thanks for the advice, steg too.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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