"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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moving on to making out.

supajsilver2

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Before this post is torn to shreds, keep in mind I'm a 15 year old freshman.

As if that would help me,

I dig my girl in a big way, and I know she digs me back just as much. But,
it took me way too long to get the first date, to even get the first kiss, and after two dates with nothing but a good night kiss or two and little response to kino or any advances at all, I need to make the jump into making out with her. I've never made out with a girl before (shut the hell up:) ). Zero experience. She's my first LTR kind of girlfriend, and I've been unsuccesful before. Her (single) mom is very strict, which is why it took awhile to land a date. The girlfriend has always followed her mother's orders to a T, something I have heard happens with girls with a single mom (no brother). I always get this vibe from her mom that, even though my gf claims she really really likes me, that I just shouldn't be there, the "nobody is good enough for my baby girl" feeling.:trouble:

Basically, I want to test her out, see if making out is cool, if not, I don't want to mess things up with her...

so anyway,

here's where you give me tips.

thanks.:up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well you could the trick that was passed on to me from some french dude and some other french dude before him, plus my twist.

Feel her hair and sort of brush the cheeks (on her FACE). If the response is good then kiss her near the mouth sorta between a goodnight and make out. If all is still well slide over.

It's worked for me ,since being the nseaky hole I am, there's no problems if she backs of, just say you sliped or something.

Pass on the knowledge and goodluck.
 

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LTR???? What the hell are you talking about? Protect your heart kid!

Think about that for a minute!

About the making out, you said you kissed her, on the next date just kiss her sooner, then kiss her some more. Its common sense, you don't need advice for that.
 

supajsilver2

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:crackup: I know what you're saying Taviii, but whatever man:rock: ...thanks for the advice, steg too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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