WhatdoyoumeanAIDS
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what are the rules for living with females, esp. friends of a friend that you do not know but will be sharing an apt. with. Is a hookup out of the question?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
moving in with two females
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
There aren't exactly rules but I don't think it'd be too wise if you're on a year-long lease to have some dumb **** happen due to the hookup halfway through. If you're coming through briefly as a subletter it's different. I've lived with girls and trust me, they do enough annoying girl stuff (seriously, how the **** do they talk for 2 hours about absolutely nothing in broad emotional terms?) without the added problems that can come with hooking up.
WhatdoyoumeanAIDS
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oh yea important note: I'm subletting only for 3 monthshandle said:
Thundernuts
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Well since its three months, have at it, just do what you do, but definately avoid coming on two strong because it will really build up steam if they don't like you, and they can't feed you the normal crap because they live with you.
If you can make your moves just right you could very well end up with both of them, who knows, maybe both at the same time.
Swing for the fence man.
If you can make your moves just right you could very well end up with both of them, who knows, maybe both at the same time.
Swing for the fence man.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.