WhatdoyoumeanAIDS
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what are the rules for living with females, esp. friends of a friend that you do not know but will be sharing an apt. with. Is a hookup out of the question?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
moving in with two females
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There aren't exactly rules but I don't think it'd be too wise if you're on a year-long lease to have some dumb **** happen due to the hookup halfway through. If you're coming through briefly as a subletter it's different. I've lived with girls and trust me, they do enough annoying girl stuff (seriously, how the **** do they talk for 2 hours about absolutely nothing in broad emotional terms?) without the added problems that can come with hooking up.
WhatdoyoumeanAIDS
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oh yea important note: I'm subletting only for 3 monthshandle said:
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Well since its three months, have at it, just do what you do, but definately avoid coming on two strong because it will really build up steam if they don't like you, and they can't feed you the normal crap because they live with you.
If you can make your moves just right you could very well end up with both of them, who knows, maybe both at the same time.
Swing for the fence man.
If you can make your moves just right you could very well end up with both of them, who knows, maybe both at the same time.
Swing for the fence man.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.