"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lazy sunday watching some NFL...

anyways.. arranged a first date with this chick Ive been talking to online and on the phone...Decided to take her to dinner and a movie tonight. When looking whats out (I barely go myself) thier is no comedy out it seems...which usually is my choice for the first date.

Anyways..lookin for recommendations for a good first date movie..

Thanks bros
p.s. I was thinkin Get Rich Or Dye Tryin cause we both are young and like 50 cent.. .but I looked and its 2 hours...so Im not sure.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Harry Potter. Seriously, it's a good movie. The theater atmosphere surrounding the movie is good, too. It'll be "fun" for her.

Edit: Nevermind. If 50 Cent's movie is too long, Harry Potter will be way too long.
 
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haha, I was recently thinking the same thing... but asking a young lady if she wants to watch Harry Potter sounds funny to me. it could work tho....
 
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LOL.. hells no! Maybe if I was bringing my nephews!! I mean..Harry Potter is one of them movies us dudes secretly like but watch alone or with kids..not taking a girl too and being a "DJ"

Thanks for the input though
 
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How was saw 2?? I know girls watching a scary movie is good for the relationship...lol..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nevermind on saw 2...shes seen it

Has anyone seen Walk The Line?? Even if you dont really know.. about Johnny Cash ... would it be good to watch?

Also Flightplan looked decent from the previews.. anyone seen it?
 
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watch The Descent if its on any cinemas around you or you could rent the dvd and watch it at home....

really good movie.....
 
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I would suggest passing up on a movie and make dinner casual.

Don't know where you live, it could movies are your main option. Here in LA it's

HOT so a nice walk on the 3rd St Promenade in Santa Monica would be cool and some drinks or coffee.

It is my opinion (for all it's worth) that movies are not good first-date activities.
 
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Dinner and a movie???? Uh that is kinda cliche`, I am glad you are trying to impress her with your individualism (sarcasm).
Unless you live in a town with one restaruant and one movie theatre and absolutly nothing else then you should never take a HB to dinner and a movie on he first date.
Here is a novel idea.....try something fun.....
Mini Golf (great for kino as you can push her when she takes her shot),
latin dance lessons (just say you want to try it, it is active and fun plus you have kino again)
a comedy festival (she is laughing that is always good)
Try and do stuff that gets her heart pumping a bit,
Good Luck
 
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Originally posted by Morphiex
watch The Descent if its on any cinemas around you or you could rent the dvd and watch it at home....

really good movie.....
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Awsome movie!! Those creatures are fu(kin scary :eek:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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