"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheOneAndONLYDJ

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Lazy sunday watching some NFL...

anyways.. arranged a first date with this chick Ive been talking to online and on the phone...Decided to take her to dinner and a movie tonight. When looking whats out (I barely go myself) thier is no comedy out it seems...which usually is my choice for the first date.

Anyways..lookin for recommendations for a good first date movie..

Thanks bros
p.s. I was thinkin Get Rich Or Dye Tryin cause we both are young and like 50 cent.. .but I looked and its 2 hours...so Im not sure.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Harry Potter. Seriously, it's a good movie. The theater atmosphere surrounding the movie is good, too. It'll be "fun" for her.

Edit: Nevermind. If 50 Cent's movie is too long, Harry Potter will be way too long.
 

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haha, I was recently thinking the same thing... but asking a young lady if she wants to watch Harry Potter sounds funny to me. it could work tho....
 

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LOL.. hells no! Maybe if I was bringing my nephews!! I mean..Harry Potter is one of them movies us dudes secretly like but watch alone or with kids..not taking a girl too and being a "DJ"

Thanks for the input though
 

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How was saw 2?? I know girls watching a scary movie is good for the relationship...lol..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nevermind on saw 2...shes seen it

Has anyone seen Walk The Line?? Even if you dont really know.. about Johnny Cash ... would it be good to watch?

Also Flightplan looked decent from the previews.. anyone seen it?
 

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watch The Descent if its on any cinemas around you or you could rent the dvd and watch it at home....

really good movie.....
 

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I would suggest passing up on a movie and make dinner casual.

Don't know where you live, it could movies are your main option. Here in LA it's

HOT so a nice walk on the 3rd St Promenade in Santa Monica would be cool and some drinks or coffee.

It is my opinion (for all it's worth) that movies are not good first-date activities.
 

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Dinner and a movie???? Uh that is kinda cliche`, I am glad you are trying to impress her with your individualism (sarcasm).
Unless you live in a town with one restaruant and one movie theatre and absolutly nothing else then you should never take a HB to dinner and a movie on he first date.
Here is a novel idea.....try something fun.....
Mini Golf (great for kino as you can push her when she takes her shot),
latin dance lessons (just say you want to try it, it is active and fun plus you have kino again)
a comedy festival (she is laughing that is always good)
Try and do stuff that gets her heart pumping a bit,
Good Luck
 

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Originally posted by Morphiex
watch The Descent if its on any cinemas around you or you could rent the dvd and watch it at home....

really good movie.....
Awsome movie!! Those creatures are fu(kin scary :eek:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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