"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lazy sunday watching some NFL...

anyways.. arranged a first date with this chick Ive been talking to online and on the phone...Decided to take her to dinner and a movie tonight. When looking whats out (I barely go myself) thier is no comedy out it seems...which usually is my choice for the first date.

Anyways..lookin for recommendations for a good first date movie..

Thanks bros
p.s. I was thinkin Get Rich Or Dye Tryin cause we both are young and like 50 cent.. .but I looked and its 2 hours...so Im not sure.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Harry Potter. Seriously, it's a good movie. The theater atmosphere surrounding the movie is good, too. It'll be "fun" for her.

Edit: Nevermind. If 50 Cent's movie is too long, Harry Potter will be way too long.
 
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haha, I was recently thinking the same thing... but asking a young lady if she wants to watch Harry Potter sounds funny to me. it could work tho....
 
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LOL.. hells no! Maybe if I was bringing my nephews!! I mean..Harry Potter is one of them movies us dudes secretly like but watch alone or with kids..not taking a girl too and being a "DJ"

Thanks for the input though
 
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How was saw 2?? I know girls watching a scary movie is good for the relationship...lol..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Nevermind on saw 2...shes seen it

Has anyone seen Walk The Line?? Even if you dont really know.. about Johnny Cash ... would it be good to watch?

Also Flightplan looked decent from the previews.. anyone seen it?
 
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watch The Descent if its on any cinemas around you or you could rent the dvd and watch it at home....

really good movie.....
 
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I would suggest passing up on a movie and make dinner casual.

Don't know where you live, it could movies are your main option. Here in LA it's

HOT so a nice walk on the 3rd St Promenade in Santa Monica would be cool and some drinks or coffee.

It is my opinion (for all it's worth) that movies are not good first-date activities.
 
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Dinner and a movie???? Uh that is kinda cliche`, I am glad you are trying to impress her with your individualism (sarcasm).
Unless you live in a town with one restaruant and one movie theatre and absolutly nothing else then you should never take a HB to dinner and a movie on he first date.
Here is a novel idea.....try something fun.....
Mini Golf (great for kino as you can push her when she takes her shot),
latin dance lessons (just say you want to try it, it is active and fun plus you have kino again)
a comedy festival (she is laughing that is always good)
Try and do stuff that gets her heart pumping a bit,
Good Luck
 
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Originally posted by Morphiex
watch The Descent if its on any cinemas around you or you could rent the dvd and watch it at home....

really good movie.....
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Awsome movie!! Those creatures are fu(kin scary :eek:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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