"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

movies

Philosopher

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 10, 2007
Messages
15
Reaction score
0
Location
LA, Ca
So one of the chicks Im working on wants to hang out tomorrow, and has wanted to see a movie. Suggestions on a movie and what I should do if she has already seen it? Cause Im pretty sure Iron Man wouldnt be the best choice : P, but i dont want to seem like im giving in to her by seeing a chick flick. I want to see a semi-compromise flick, with her thinking it was my idea from the beginning.

Or Im just over-thinking this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

KontrollerX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 11, 2005
Messages
4,476
Reaction score
182
I haven't kept up on the movies all that much but if The Dark Knight is playing currently go see that.
 

DJ Noble

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 7, 2008
Messages
36
Reaction score
0
Location
Philadelphia
Indiana Jones is your best bet.... but that's NEXT Friday.
 
Last edited:

Genghis_Khan

Don Juan
Joined
May 5, 2008
Messages
16
Reaction score
0
Location
CubsNation
Go see "Forgetting Sarah Marshall", if you haven't already seen it. It's really a fun movie to watch it with a girl. There are so many opportunities for you to say C+F stuff.

I watched it like 3 times. One of the times, i watched it with HB7.5 and the scene, where a girl looks like she's giving a bj to her husband on the webcam, came up. HB7.5 was laughing and i looked at her.

GK: *(serious, kinda lost looking look)* I don't get it. What's so funny?
HB7.5: OMG! Shut up, you don't really get it?
GK: No
HB7.5: It looks like the girl is giving the guy a BJ.
GK: Um... What's a BJ? *(keep that same look!!!)*
HB7.5: *(rolls her eyes)* Oh, like you don't know!!!
GK: I'm for real. Explain what a BJ is? Now i wanna know!
HB7.5: *(hits my arm)* I'll explain it to you later!

I guess her b*tch shield was on since there were whole bunch of people around us. But i asked her in the car afterwards, "So, what's a BJ?" She tried to explain it to me and it was funny as hell. We had a big laugh. :)

.....Peace
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Epicenter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 10, 2020
Messages
1,003
Reaction score
376
Age
55

I liked this movie. It's available on Youtube it seems. It's kind of romantic. It may cause PTSD for some members here. The girl seems to be quite liberal :)
 

Spaz

Banned
Joined
Jan 14, 2018
Messages
8,337
Reaction score
6,878
I just recently watched the movie Greyhound.

It's abt an American WW2 warship escorting supplies through the Atlantic towards the UK.

It highlights the danger, struggles, deaths and huge sacrifices many American sailors had made so that Americans can enjoy their freedoms now.

I wonder what those men would be thinking right now, that at the height of a pandemic, of those young Americans who can't even be bothered to wear a mask...and even goes around calling it fake, some even calls it unpatriotic to wear mask.

Men who bled, fought and sacrificed so much, this gotta hurt em deeply, knowing that a nation is ungrateful in their time of need.

Enjoy the movie gents.
 

Epicenter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 10, 2020
Messages
1,003
Reaction score
376
Age
55
I just recently watched the movie Greyhound.

It's abt an American WW2 warship escorting supplies through the Atlantic towards the UK.

It highlights the danger, struggles, deaths and huge sacrifices many American sailors had made so that Americans can enjoy their freedoms now.

I wonder what those men would be thinking right now, that at the height of a pandemic, of those young Americans who can't even be bothered to wear a mask...and even goes around calling it fake, some even calls it unpatriotic to wear mask.

Men who bled, fought and sacrificed so much, this gotta hurt em deeply, knowing that a nation is ungrateful in their time of need.

Enjoy the movie gents.
Not all men were heroes. Many were cannonfodder and did not know what they are fighting for.

 
Top