"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So one of the chicks Im working on wants to hang out tomorrow, and has wanted to see a movie. Suggestions on a movie and what I should do if she has already seen it? Cause Im pretty sure Iron Man wouldnt be the best choice : P, but i dont want to seem like im giving in to her by seeing a chick flick. I want to see a semi-compromise flick, with her thinking it was my idea from the beginning.

Or Im just over-thinking this.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I haven't kept up on the movies all that much but if The Dark Knight is playing currently go see that.
 

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Indiana Jones is your best bet.... but that's NEXT Friday.
 
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Go see "Forgetting Sarah Marshall", if you haven't already seen it. It's really a fun movie to watch it with a girl. There are so many opportunities for you to say C+F stuff.

I watched it like 3 times. One of the times, i watched it with HB7.5 and the scene, where a girl looks like she's giving a bj to her husband on the webcam, came up. HB7.5 was laughing and i looked at her.

GK: *(serious, kinda lost looking look)* I don't get it. What's so funny?
HB7.5: OMG! Shut up, you don't really get it?
GK: No
HB7.5: It looks like the girl is giving the guy a BJ.
GK: Um... What's a BJ? *(keep that same look!!!)*
HB7.5: *(rolls her eyes)* Oh, like you don't know!!!
GK: I'm for real. Explain what a BJ is? Now i wanna know!
HB7.5: *(hits my arm)* I'll explain it to you later!

I guess her b*tch shield was on since there were whole bunch of people around us. But i asked her in the car afterwards, "So, what's a BJ?" She tried to explain it to me and it was funny as hell. We had a big laugh. :)

.....Peace
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I liked this movie. It's available on Youtube it seems. It's kind of romantic. It may cause PTSD for some members here. The girl seems to be quite liberal :)
 

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I just recently watched the movie Greyhound.

It's abt an American WW2 warship escorting supplies through the Atlantic towards the UK.

It highlights the danger, struggles, deaths and huge sacrifices many American sailors had made so that Americans can enjoy their freedoms now.

I wonder what those men would be thinking right now, that at the height of a pandemic, of those young Americans who can't even be bothered to wear a mask...and even goes around calling it fake, some even calls it unpatriotic to wear mask.

Men who bled, fought and sacrificed so much, this gotta hurt em deeply, knowing that a nation is ungrateful in their time of need.

Enjoy the movie gents.
 

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I just recently watched the movie Greyhound.

It's abt an American WW2 warship escorting supplies through the Atlantic towards the UK.

It highlights the danger, struggles, deaths and huge sacrifices many American sailors had made so that Americans can enjoy their freedoms now.

I wonder what those men would be thinking right now, that at the height of a pandemic, of those young Americans who can't even be bothered to wear a mask...and even goes around calling it fake, some even calls it unpatriotic to wear mask.

Men who bled, fought and sacrificed so much, this gotta hurt em deeply, knowing that a nation is ungrateful in their time of need.

Enjoy the movie gents.
Not all men were heroes. Many were cannonfodder and did not know what they are fighting for.

 
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